Not into anal sex,really?
11-30-2014, 11:28 AM
Around 60% of gay men do not do anal.
Out of the 40% left I have read research polls which demonstrate that about half those those who are doing anal believe that because they must do it in order to be 'gay' or to live up to the expectations of what being gay is about.
That means around only 20% of men like anal and actually WANT to do it.
Two influences that profoundly affect our group.
Which is the lesser of to evils I have no idea, it's a hard call, thus listing them randomly n not based on importance.
1. Porn: Porn has affected sexuality for the western human being (gay, straight, bi- whatever). all of this body shaving, from porn. go back and look at the 1970's gay porn and see all of the slender, toned and unshaven torsos. Massive muscles and shaves torsos showed up when porn answered the Gay Plague with images of 'uber healthy' males - well game to find out that those infected with HIV can have bodies just like that so that propaganda taught us nothing but did make us all pretty unrealistic about male image.
It also gave us the formulaic and lame sex act of two gay men:
Sucking, followed by fucking, followed by the glazed doughnut (cum shot on the body, face, whatever).
It was porn companies reaching out to the roughly 20% of potential clients that all of this ass fucking was shown. Gay porn always had a limited customer list, so they needed to appease as many gay men as possible thus leading to the formula.
Look at pre-Beta and VHS tape porn (reel porn) and you see a lot more sucking than fucking. This was when porn was tailored for what gay men actually wanted. And yeah body hair, pubes and totally awesome mustaches were also all the rage. Porn changed that.
2. Your Bashers:
Your Bashers call you a fudge packer and always - ALWAYS - bring up anal sex, hemorrhoids, prolapse and all manner of other ungodly stuff. Its the same people that tell us what we must be in other areas, fay (effeminate), hair dressers, promiscuous and lots of other things which we as a group adopted and made our own. 1950's gay is not the 1960's and 1970's gay. We were all about cock-sucking not ass fucking and we kept it on the downlow and few of us were really looking for endless chains of one nightstands.
These two influences have in conjunction with the AIDS epidemic and other pressures molded and made the modern homosexual into what it is today. And its composed of a lot of men who are doing a lot of things they do not want to do because they think that they MUST do it in order to appease the Gay Gods or whatever.
Sadly, we in the community also adopted the 'Law' that gay men can't actually love each other, many a jaded queens spouted that to me in the 80's and 90's, because society told them that. Society still teaches us this each time we are denied marriage. However with the acceptance of marriage gay's are actually starting to move from the 'lets fuck out brains out' mind set to the 'lets settle down and have a married love life' mind set. Which is hell - you decide.
Physically, your arse is not designed to be fucked. Period.
Yes your prostate can be massaged and enjoy it, however being pounded by a hard cock causes you prostate issues. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/scien...-find.html
Your sphincter muscles are not designed to allow a massive invader inside, hell they are not even designed to allow water to go flowing up in ya, thus allowing you to swim without getting a parasite or bacterial enema.
So yeah, it hurts to have your sphincter muscles shoved in the wrong direction, and yes many men cannot and will never adapt to this no matter how much they try.
The arse is designed to signal fullness and that is discomforting in order to get us to go find a potty place so we don't shit all over ourselves, in our beds, or where we eat. We are a species that has some bowel control because fecal matter everywhere is unhealthy. So we respond to a full ass as if its something 'terrible' is coming because yes, something terrible is on its way and we need to take that shit elsewhere.
Yes the prostate can enjoy gentle massage. Not an ass pounding fucking.
Most men (gay, bi, straight whatever) don't do anal because its not comfortable and finding the 'right man' who makes it feel good most likely isn't going to happen.
Be part of the 60% of gay men who freely admit that while you love to suck cock all day long your arse is just too tight, tender, or not adjustable to fucking.
Out of the 40% left I have read research polls which demonstrate that about half those those who are doing anal believe that because they must do it in order to be 'gay' or to live up to the expectations of what being gay is about.
That means around only 20% of men like anal and actually WANT to do it.
Two influences that profoundly affect our group.
Which is the lesser of to evils I have no idea, it's a hard call, thus listing them randomly n not based on importance.
1. Porn: Porn has affected sexuality for the western human being (gay, straight, bi- whatever). all of this body shaving, from porn. go back and look at the 1970's gay porn and see all of the slender, toned and unshaven torsos. Massive muscles and shaves torsos showed up when porn answered the Gay Plague with images of 'uber healthy' males - well game to find out that those infected with HIV can have bodies just like that so that propaganda taught us nothing but did make us all pretty unrealistic about male image.
It also gave us the formulaic and lame sex act of two gay men:
Sucking, followed by fucking, followed by the glazed doughnut (cum shot on the body, face, whatever).
It was porn companies reaching out to the roughly 20% of potential clients that all of this ass fucking was shown. Gay porn always had a limited customer list, so they needed to appease as many gay men as possible thus leading to the formula.
Look at pre-Beta and VHS tape porn (reel porn) and you see a lot more sucking than fucking. This was when porn was tailored for what gay men actually wanted. And yeah body hair, pubes and totally awesome mustaches were also all the rage. Porn changed that.
2. Your Bashers:
Your Bashers call you a fudge packer and always - ALWAYS - bring up anal sex, hemorrhoids, prolapse and all manner of other ungodly stuff. Its the same people that tell us what we must be in other areas, fay (effeminate), hair dressers, promiscuous and lots of other things which we as a group adopted and made our own. 1950's gay is not the 1960's and 1970's gay. We were all about cock-sucking not ass fucking and we kept it on the downlow and few of us were really looking for endless chains of one nightstands.
These two influences have in conjunction with the AIDS epidemic and other pressures molded and made the modern homosexual into what it is today. And its composed of a lot of men who are doing a lot of things they do not want to do because they think that they MUST do it in order to appease the Gay Gods or whatever.
Sadly, we in the community also adopted the 'Law' that gay men can't actually love each other, many a jaded queens spouted that to me in the 80's and 90's, because society told them that. Society still teaches us this each time we are denied marriage. However with the acceptance of marriage gay's are actually starting to move from the 'lets fuck out brains out' mind set to the 'lets settle down and have a married love life' mind set. Which is hell - you decide.
Physically, your arse is not designed to be fucked. Period.
Yes your prostate can be massaged and enjoy it, however being pounded by a hard cock causes you prostate issues. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/scien...-find.html
Your sphincter muscles are not designed to allow a massive invader inside, hell they are not even designed to allow water to go flowing up in ya, thus allowing you to swim without getting a parasite or bacterial enema.
So yeah, it hurts to have your sphincter muscles shoved in the wrong direction, and yes many men cannot and will never adapt to this no matter how much they try.
The arse is designed to signal fullness and that is discomforting in order to get us to go find a potty place so we don't shit all over ourselves, in our beds, or where we eat. We are a species that has some bowel control because fecal matter everywhere is unhealthy. So we respond to a full ass as if its something 'terrible' is coming because yes, something terrible is on its way and we need to take that shit elsewhere.
Yes the prostate can enjoy gentle massage. Not an ass pounding fucking.
Most men (gay, bi, straight whatever) don't do anal because its not comfortable and finding the 'right man' who makes it feel good most likely isn't going to happen.
Be part of the 60% of gay men who freely admit that while you love to suck cock all day long your arse is just too tight, tender, or not adjustable to fucking.
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