12-03-2014, 02:39 PM
I've been meeting a man for 2 weeks, well, he's a 44 years old man (he looked like a man in his early 30s in person)
I think he's a good man, we've been meeting like 8 times in this 2 weeks (mostly talking about ourselves)
he's a white collar worker, he worked in a multinational company in my city, and he's half australian (kinda figured out from his deep australian accent the first time we met)
the 1st time we met, he brought a gift for me, from the looks of it, it ain't something cheap. I refused the gift and well tell him not to give anything to me the next time we meet because it bothers me
I kinda met him like an hour ago, he texted me out of nowhere and invited me to dinner (I declined because he picked a fancy restaurant and I kinda picked a less fancy restaurant where you can wear casual clothes in it)
he said he wanted to us to have a serious relationship, and he said he gonna give me time to think
tonight he tell me things he haven't told me in our earlier dates, he's a divorcee with 2 sons, his eldest son is 15y.o., they currently living with their mother. I'm pretty surprised to this.
I really can't imagine dating a man with kids, I can't imagine his sons' reaction if they found out his dad dating someone 22 years younger and a guy on top of that
well, I never know how it's like to have a father but well, I kinda can imagine that
I know it's just me worrying too much or me being asshole-ic to not be able to fully accept someone's condition
but I really am confused right now, he gotta go for a business trip and comeback in 1 week, and he told me to think about it.
I think he's a good man, we've been meeting like 8 times in this 2 weeks (mostly talking about ourselves)
he's a white collar worker, he worked in a multinational company in my city, and he's half australian (kinda figured out from his deep australian accent the first time we met)
the 1st time we met, he brought a gift for me, from the looks of it, it ain't something cheap. I refused the gift and well tell him not to give anything to me the next time we meet because it bothers me
I kinda met him like an hour ago, he texted me out of nowhere and invited me to dinner (I declined because he picked a fancy restaurant and I kinda picked a less fancy restaurant where you can wear casual clothes in it)
he said he wanted to us to have a serious relationship, and he said he gonna give me time to think
tonight he tell me things he haven't told me in our earlier dates, he's a divorcee with 2 sons, his eldest son is 15y.o., they currently living with their mother. I'm pretty surprised to this.
I really can't imagine dating a man with kids, I can't imagine his sons' reaction if they found out his dad dating someone 22 years younger and a guy on top of that
well, I never know how it's like to have a father but well, I kinda can imagine that
I know it's just me worrying too much or me being asshole-ic to not be able to fully accept someone's condition
but I really am confused right now, he gotta go for a business trip and comeback in 1 week, and he told me to think about it.