Not wanting help I just need to complain....

[Hardheaded1]

any suggestion to 'do something' is pretty much like telling a legless man to get up and walk.

*BUZZER SOUND*

Wrong answer.

It is understandable that you have reason to be discouraged, but the key to getting up and out is not excluding every recommendation that could work. I speak from experience, as my mother was a victim of always discounting everything that could possibly work.

I put my response in a PM.

You are going to get out of this, alive, and better. And it is going to change soon.