Changes are coming and I don't know how big.
12-14-2014, 01:10 PM
No advice needed. I just need to get some things off my mind.
It's no secret that my life is going to change in 13 days. I've been talking about it since I joined GS back in June. Once Jay gets here things are going to start moving fast in directions I've never really discussed in here but they won't surprise anyone because I've started threads about them but never linked them together as related to each other.
Before all that some news I've been sitting on since Thanksgiving. For the first time since 2010 my metabolism is acceptably normal. For those who don't know already I have hereditary hemochromatosis. My body absorbs iron about 300% more efficiently that most of yours. The bad bad of that is the human body has no natural way to get rid of excess iron so it stores it in organs, skin and blood. It's not fatal as long as it's controlled. Controlling it is a matter of diet. The doctors talked about a low iron diet. I said screw that. I went for a nearly iron free diet and have been on it 4 years and will be for the rest of my life except for real special occasions. 99.9% of the year I eat only foods with less than 4% iron and over 75% of my diet is zero iron. Way back I got tired of having to answer questions about my health, what doctors have said, my test results and all that. All that info is to me is unnecessary brain clutter and shit I don't want to have to repeat over and over and over again until I get depressed about it. All I concentrate on is the diet. When test results come my doctor knows better than to bother me with it. He sends the info to my dad who translates it all into English then texts and emails everyone who's more curious about all that than I am. If you ever want to know details Ray is the go-to man. It's fun to be asked questions by people, then cal Ray to come over and talk to them while i go talk to someone else about something else. hahaha!
The price of my diet is that in the past year I've lost a massive amount of weight. Now that I have a good starting point with my iron levels I'm going to be hitting the gym whether or not I want to. Jay is going to be a Nazi about that since he's been going to gyms 4 times a week for 14 years. The fun part is we're going to document the transformation in pics I'm sure I'll start posting here when I get to looking less like an anorexic Viking on crack. AND I have a full head of hair again that my man won't let me get cut until he gets here and supervises. Loosing it was a side effect from the HH. He wants me to have bangs down to my nose like I did in high school. hahaha! Whatever. I'm not going to sweat that teeny detail.
On to other things. ........................................................
I don't think I'll be quitting GS. I can tell you now with Jay being a psychologist who'll be working 12 hour days and sometimes more he's not going to come home to read about things he has to deal with in his office and be paid to listen to. I'm going to probably give in to his less than approving sneers about giving so much of some sorts of advice. He's right about it. Trying to give relationship advice based on just one side of the story never fair to either person involved. More than likely I'll do my best to run [MENTION=18457]LONDONER[/MENTION] out of his job as resident disperser of cheesy humor and trivia. Maybe I'll specialize in more themed portfolios of semi nekkid men. For those of you who have avoided the thread I started about "Is it ride to Eat on the couch?" the joke was on you. hahahahahaha! Maybe I'll just do drive-by commenting like [MENTION=13210]Beaux[/MENTION] specializes in. Who knows?
Ray and I had people over tonight to help decorate for Xmas. We had to mix up the traditional 3 gallon bucket of daquiris with a fan blade welded to a paint stirrer spun by my power drill. We gave some gifts around, had some laffs, strung lights in the beams in the rec room to give it that great dime store disco ambiance. Three Xmas trees are up, Santa is humping a reindeer by the fireplace again. Then about ten the Xmas party turned into a surprise bachelor party since tonight is the only time before Jay gets here that they could plan it without me getting suspicious. Any pictures from the party that end up being shared in GS will lead to a short little bubble butted Alabama hillbilly ending up in the obituaries.
I gave Ray an Xmas gift that didn't cost anything. He can officially call himself my partner now. No ring involved. He's going to be taking over more of the business starting immediately. He'll be the one on the computer the most from now on. He'll be picking up rent checks, writing checks, making deposits, property upkeep, maintenance and taking booking for the B&B.... in his spare time when he's not working at the fire station or teaching gymnastics. I screwed up and didn't think before i told him now he'll have time to get in GS and chat. He went off on me like a cherry bomb in a cats ass about me making sure he didn't have time to do anything fun online anymore.
The best Xmas gift I got was a new set of nuts. I eat loads of Brazil nuts and had no idea they come in giant size pods with maybe 50 in each one. I'm just curious how a mining/ engineering student from Ohio found them. I was going to ask him before he passed out in the hallway waiting for whoever he thought was in the bathroom to come out.
Once Jay gets settled and steady we'll be starting some new things together. We've done some preliminary work on an interesting way of using the internet as an interactive means to help other gay couples with relationships... and separate from that .... attempt to really break the barrier on introducing more men (gay and straight) to male multiple orgasms without it becoming any more porny than it has to be. I had no idea how many legal issues there are about doing something like that and being honest about it. We'll see where all that goes as we go there. It's all pretty sure we'll definitely be doing the internet site for couples. That's been a big hot topic for us for over 2 years now.
My number one job for a few months will be making sure the idiot who's coming here December 26th doesn't get one reason to start regretting it. He can redecorate the whole house, tell me how he wants my hair cut, throw out my old clothes and buy me some he likes better, get me to give foot massages, and even make me wash his dishes... That's small crap and all I'm going to pay attention to is the big crap. I know you guys understand that.
I guess what I'm going through now is uncertainty about GS. You guys have been a big part of my life since June. You've helped me keep my sanity and allowed me to jeopardize yours. I wish I knew how things will be a month or two from now but I don't. I'm already missing you guys and I have no reason to yet. I better end this before I get mushy and start slobbering... But there is one thing I've wanted to tell everyone for a long long long time and put it off until now....
I love all of you guys.............
And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph.............
If anyone wants to quote me on that, feel free to. hahahahahahahahhahaah!
Merry Christmas to all of you.
Virge
It's no secret that my life is going to change in 13 days. I've been talking about it since I joined GS back in June. Once Jay gets here things are going to start moving fast in directions I've never really discussed in here but they won't surprise anyone because I've started threads about them but never linked them together as related to each other.
Before all that some news I've been sitting on since Thanksgiving. For the first time since 2010 my metabolism is acceptably normal. For those who don't know already I have hereditary hemochromatosis. My body absorbs iron about 300% more efficiently that most of yours. The bad bad of that is the human body has no natural way to get rid of excess iron so it stores it in organs, skin and blood. It's not fatal as long as it's controlled. Controlling it is a matter of diet. The doctors talked about a low iron diet. I said screw that. I went for a nearly iron free diet and have been on it 4 years and will be for the rest of my life except for real special occasions. 99.9% of the year I eat only foods with less than 4% iron and over 75% of my diet is zero iron. Way back I got tired of having to answer questions about my health, what doctors have said, my test results and all that. All that info is to me is unnecessary brain clutter and shit I don't want to have to repeat over and over and over again until I get depressed about it. All I concentrate on is the diet. When test results come my doctor knows better than to bother me with it. He sends the info to my dad who translates it all into English then texts and emails everyone who's more curious about all that than I am. If you ever want to know details Ray is the go-to man. It's fun to be asked questions by people, then cal Ray to come over and talk to them while i go talk to someone else about something else. hahaha!
The price of my diet is that in the past year I've lost a massive amount of weight. Now that I have a good starting point with my iron levels I'm going to be hitting the gym whether or not I want to. Jay is going to be a Nazi about that since he's been going to gyms 4 times a week for 14 years. The fun part is we're going to document the transformation in pics I'm sure I'll start posting here when I get to looking less like an anorexic Viking on crack. AND I have a full head of hair again that my man won't let me get cut until he gets here and supervises. Loosing it was a side effect from the HH. He wants me to have bangs down to my nose like I did in high school. hahaha! Whatever. I'm not going to sweat that teeny detail.
On to other things. ........................................................
I don't think I'll be quitting GS. I can tell you now with Jay being a psychologist who'll be working 12 hour days and sometimes more he's not going to come home to read about things he has to deal with in his office and be paid to listen to. I'm going to probably give in to his less than approving sneers about giving so much of some sorts of advice. He's right about it. Trying to give relationship advice based on just one side of the story never fair to either person involved. More than likely I'll do my best to run [MENTION=18457]LONDONER[/MENTION] out of his job as resident disperser of cheesy humor and trivia. Maybe I'll specialize in more themed portfolios of semi nekkid men. For those of you who have avoided the thread I started about "Is it ride to Eat on the couch?" the joke was on you. hahahahahaha! Maybe I'll just do drive-by commenting like [MENTION=13210]Beaux[/MENTION] specializes in. Who knows?
Ray and I had people over tonight to help decorate for Xmas. We had to mix up the traditional 3 gallon bucket of daquiris with a fan blade welded to a paint stirrer spun by my power drill. We gave some gifts around, had some laffs, strung lights in the beams in the rec room to give it that great dime store disco ambiance. Three Xmas trees are up, Santa is humping a reindeer by the fireplace again. Then about ten the Xmas party turned into a surprise bachelor party since tonight is the only time before Jay gets here that they could plan it without me getting suspicious. Any pictures from the party that end up being shared in GS will lead to a short little bubble butted Alabama hillbilly ending up in the obituaries.
I gave Ray an Xmas gift that didn't cost anything. He can officially call himself my partner now. No ring involved. He's going to be taking over more of the business starting immediately. He'll be the one on the computer the most from now on. He'll be picking up rent checks, writing checks, making deposits, property upkeep, maintenance and taking booking for the B&B.... in his spare time when he's not working at the fire station or teaching gymnastics. I screwed up and didn't think before i told him now he'll have time to get in GS and chat. He went off on me like a cherry bomb in a cats ass about me making sure he didn't have time to do anything fun online anymore.
The best Xmas gift I got was a new set of nuts. I eat loads of Brazil nuts and had no idea they come in giant size pods with maybe 50 in each one. I'm just curious how a mining/ engineering student from Ohio found them. I was going to ask him before he passed out in the hallway waiting for whoever he thought was in the bathroom to come out.
Once Jay gets settled and steady we'll be starting some new things together. We've done some preliminary work on an interesting way of using the internet as an interactive means to help other gay couples with relationships... and separate from that .... attempt to really break the barrier on introducing more men (gay and straight) to male multiple orgasms without it becoming any more porny than it has to be. I had no idea how many legal issues there are about doing something like that and being honest about it. We'll see where all that goes as we go there. It's all pretty sure we'll definitely be doing the internet site for couples. That's been a big hot topic for us for over 2 years now.
My number one job for a few months will be making sure the idiot who's coming here December 26th doesn't get one reason to start regretting it. He can redecorate the whole house, tell me how he wants my hair cut, throw out my old clothes and buy me some he likes better, get me to give foot massages, and even make me wash his dishes... That's small crap and all I'm going to pay attention to is the big crap. I know you guys understand that.
I guess what I'm going through now is uncertainty about GS. You guys have been a big part of my life since June. You've helped me keep my sanity and allowed me to jeopardize yours. I wish I knew how things will be a month or two from now but I don't. I'm already missing you guys and I have no reason to yet. I better end this before I get mushy and start slobbering... But there is one thing I've wanted to tell everyone for a long long long time and put it off until now....
I love all of you guys.............
And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph. And don’t get me started about the people who write five hundred thousand lines of text and never think of making it more than one paragraph.............
If anyone wants to quote me on that, feel free to. hahahahahahahahhahaah!
Merry Christmas to all of you.
Virge
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