My boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea for us to have gay friends. More specifically, he doesn't think it's ok to make new gay friends. He has four gay friends he has know for a long time and he thinks it's fine for him to keep them but I am not allowed to befriend any new gay males. Opinions?
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Your boyfriend is an asshole.
Go out and make as many friends as possible.
You're going to need them when you break up with this control frek jerk.
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He's probably jealous but yeah make any friend you like.
Friends are so important
I would not stay in a relationship that doesn't allow me to have friends but this is just me.
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When you go to bed tonight, just mention how hot you think one of his gay friends is.
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Yeah he does get jealous very easily. He worries that I'll cheat on him because he cheated on his last boyfriend. He says it's human nature to cheat and thinks anyone can cheat when put in the wrong place at the wrong time.
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Jealousy is the worst trait a partner can have.
Run.
Now...
Before it is too late.
My great grandmother died because her husband was too jealous to let a doctor near her.
Your BF sounds just as rational.
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I can tell you the right place to put it, if you want.
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But to be fair, (I was told by my bf that I didn't word this objectively enough), he has four gay friends and I have 2 bi friends. He texts each of his gay friends more in one day than I text both of my bi friends combined in a month, though.
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How does he feel about you jacking off to gay porn?
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Your BF is an insecure, controlling asshole.
Having homo friends isn't going to make you want to cheat.
His behaviour and fucked up sense of control is.
Tell him to get the fuck over it and get out there and make lots of friends.
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