01-04-2015, 07:24 PM
This is not exactly a confession but it's the only thread where I can post anonymously.
I use Bender, similar to Grindr, and just recently received a message from it turned out, the son of one of my neighbours. I have never spoken to him because not only is he not my type but also because I never realised he was gay. Initially I replied before I realised who he was but then he didn't. Now, several weeks later he is hitting on me again. I guess he's about 30 (younger than I), prematurely bald and somewhat hirsute. I'm really not interested, especially as he's a neighbour, but don't know how to proceed. Fortunately I haven't yet bumped in to him in the neighbourhood and I don't know how ro react if he tries to talk to me. Any advice?
I use Bender, similar to Grindr, and just recently received a message from it turned out, the son of one of my neighbours. I have never spoken to him because not only is he not my type but also because I never realised he was gay. Initially I replied before I realised who he was but then he didn't. Now, several weeks later he is hitting on me again. I guess he's about 30 (younger than I), prematurely bald and somewhat hirsute. I'm really not interested, especially as he's a neighbour, but don't know how to proceed. Fortunately I haven't yet bumped in to him in the neighbourhood and I don't know how ro react if he tries to talk to me. Any advice?