Virge Wrote:I understand your point of view PA but I'm glad I have me a guy who's an exception to all that. When we finish in missionary position it's 100% sure he's going to spooge hands free... and I'm conditioned so that as soon as I feel it happening with him I can't hold mine back. He won't even let me jack him most the time.
There have been many times in other positions when he shoots off hands free during penetration and there's no warning...
The best position for me to get him into having non ejaculation MMOs is laying on top him doing it from behind. All I have to do to get him to cum in that position is slide my open palm under him and keep pressure on his penis against his abs.... and I don't ejaculate about 75% of the time in that position after a bunch of MMOs so he doesn't have to worry about getting up to go to the bathroom... and can lay there and enjoy his sex coma. I'll roll us in the spooning position still connected to snuggle up and snooze... and maybe wake up with him wanting to do it again. woooooo hooooooo!
Dear Virge,
Very glad for you. It's splendid.
I don't claim to know this much on the subject and I'm afraid I can only comment from what I've noticed. I have not had enough partners to know whether it's a common or uncommon occurrence, but I'll vouch that if it was a common occurrence, we'd see a lot more of it in porn, because, admit it, it's hot.
The fact that your couple has honed it into a fine art is great for your sex life and testifies that it does happen. But I wonder how long it would take for any new partner of yours to ejaculate that way if you hadn't worked on it first.
The original poster's rather naive question was whether is was a "must". I don't see how it can be a "must" if it's not that easy to achieve, especially with a stranger, or a new partner. The two of you know one another's bodies and responses well enough that you can experience it on a daily or regular basis. Lucky you. As you, yourself, know, if it were so widespread, you wouldn't have so many people to "convert", would you?
I think ability to do this may also be linked to age and how sensitive your genitals are to something like this and probably all of your personal wiring. Since this has got to be not just a response from the brain but also from all the nerve endings, I guess, this form of ejaculation can be experienced by those who are particularly sensitive or can programme their brains to enjoy joint orgasms. Something to strive for, maybe.
Nonetheless, I am happy for you, because your sex life sounds quite amazing. Thanks for sharing the details.