02-04-2015, 03:05 PM
wanted to discuss something with you guys.
i always had been a sensitive person. so when people play pranks to me, i do feel very hurt.
i have posted 2 pranks above. If anyone (my friends or my future partner) did this to me, i will feel very hurt. i have been through similar pranks and it took me days to overcome the shame, embarrassment and the emotional hurt that i have experienced and end up crying. (yup i sound like a sissy).
you have to understand that i'm not a hypocrite whereby i like to do these pranks on others but i don't like others to do it on me. i dun like participating in such extreme pranks at all. there was this guy A who liked to prank me a lot in high school. there was one day whereby A left his jacket unattended in one empty classroom. my friend and i were there. my friend suggested that i take liquid detergent and pour on his jacket as revenge. but i felt it was not right. and i told my friend strictly that i don't like to do such things. my friend told me "wow, A has done so many nasty things to you but you chose not to do anything back to him". well, that is me.
but if you think i'm a person who don't like anything funny, its not entirely true.
i'm comfortable with the scare pranks and also tickling ones. my cousins and friends have tried scaring me (like the Ellen scare) and also hold my arms while they tickle me. i do laugh along with them for those pranks. but i just don't like those extreme pranks.
i sometimes wonder whether it is abnormal of me to feel uncomfortable with such pranks. i mean most of other people seem to enjoy such pranks. do you guys think i'm an abnormal person?
i'm also concerned that being sensitive to pranks will make me unlikeable by others. will most people prefer not to have a friend or life partner who is sensitive to such pranks?
i always had been a sensitive person. so when people play pranks to me, i do feel very hurt.
i have posted 2 pranks above. If anyone (my friends or my future partner) did this to me, i will feel very hurt. i have been through similar pranks and it took me days to overcome the shame, embarrassment and the emotional hurt that i have experienced and end up crying. (yup i sound like a sissy).
you have to understand that i'm not a hypocrite whereby i like to do these pranks on others but i don't like others to do it on me. i dun like participating in such extreme pranks at all. there was this guy A who liked to prank me a lot in high school. there was one day whereby A left his jacket unattended in one empty classroom. my friend and i were there. my friend suggested that i take liquid detergent and pour on his jacket as revenge. but i felt it was not right. and i told my friend strictly that i don't like to do such things. my friend told me "wow, A has done so many nasty things to you but you chose not to do anything back to him". well, that is me.
but if you think i'm a person who don't like anything funny, its not entirely true.
i'm comfortable with the scare pranks and also tickling ones. my cousins and friends have tried scaring me (like the Ellen scare) and also hold my arms while they tickle me. i do laugh along with them for those pranks. but i just don't like those extreme pranks.
i sometimes wonder whether it is abnormal of me to feel uncomfortable with such pranks. i mean most of other people seem to enjoy such pranks. do you guys think i'm an abnormal person?
i'm also concerned that being sensitive to pranks will make me unlikeable by others. will most people prefer not to have a friend or life partner who is sensitive to such pranks?