02-09-2015, 07:23 PM
So this is the situation and I'll be changing a name so yeah
So me and my best friend Pablo have been friends for 5 years right. So in those years we have done so much but that's besides the point . Our "friendship" doesn't look normal to people. If you ask anyone they would tell you we have been dating since forever.
I have talked to Pablo about this when people first started making comments like that and his answer was. "As long as you and I both know what we are nothing and nobody matters" mind you Pablo is straight. I think you will understand later
Anyways so as we move from that our friendship grows and we get closer we fight and argue like regular friends but we can never stand to he be mad or not talk to each other for long. After a fight he would come over and bring me like candy or ice cream or whatever to apologize and try smoothing things over. Anyways
So then we get into the way we are with each other. We always do things with each other it's rare you see us without one another and if we are we are still texting one another . If one of us is sick the other will take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. If someone is upset the other is there to make him feel better. That's just us I guess. When around others we stick near each other we sit with each other if there Is one chair either I sit on Pablo's lap or he tells me to take the chair and he'll sit at my feet . If we go to a party I'll dance while he stands close and watches over me. If we go out with friends he sees I'm upset he'll put his arms around me and hold me till I cool down . Before we say goodbye it's I love you a hug and goodnight. That's us it doesn't sound like much.but it's the way we do things that make people question our relationship as friends. We are "to friendly with each other " so here lies the problem. I am moving from Va to Texas and right now he has chosen to distance himself from everyone including me and it kind of hurts. And I'm not going to lie o really do like him a bit more then a friend and like him I would do anything and everything for him. He still says he's straight but his actions towards me says other wise. We have a lot of cute moments and all that stuff so now I'm stuck thinking what are we? Are we friends for real or is there more to it? And I'm also thinking what if we did actually try being together would it be so bad? Yes he have kissed and it was good but we don't speak on it. There is a lot of unanswered questions and I know I can't ask him because then he gets defensive and says he's not gay. But then treats me like we are dating and stuff so like what do I do? Do I let it go and move and not look back on it or do I do something about all this? And if so what ? Whatever this is between us has interfered with so many actual relationships we have had with others that I'm starting to think that I can't actually get into another relationship unless I stop being friends with him completely? So lost confused and I'm running out of time. [emoji25] [emoji27]
So me and my best friend Pablo have been friends for 5 years right. So in those years we have done so much but that's besides the point . Our "friendship" doesn't look normal to people. If you ask anyone they would tell you we have been dating since forever.
I have talked to Pablo about this when people first started making comments like that and his answer was. "As long as you and I both know what we are nothing and nobody matters" mind you Pablo is straight. I think you will understand later
Anyways so as we move from that our friendship grows and we get closer we fight and argue like regular friends but we can never stand to he be mad or not talk to each other for long. After a fight he would come over and bring me like candy or ice cream or whatever to apologize and try smoothing things over. Anyways
So then we get into the way we are with each other. We always do things with each other it's rare you see us without one another and if we are we are still texting one another . If one of us is sick the other will take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. If someone is upset the other is there to make him feel better. That's just us I guess. When around others we stick near each other we sit with each other if there Is one chair either I sit on Pablo's lap or he tells me to take the chair and he'll sit at my feet . If we go to a party I'll dance while he stands close and watches over me. If we go out with friends he sees I'm upset he'll put his arms around me and hold me till I cool down . Before we say goodbye it's I love you a hug and goodnight. That's us it doesn't sound like much.but it's the way we do things that make people question our relationship as friends. We are "to friendly with each other " so here lies the problem. I am moving from Va to Texas and right now he has chosen to distance himself from everyone including me and it kind of hurts. And I'm not going to lie o really do like him a bit more then a friend and like him I would do anything and everything for him. He still says he's straight but his actions towards me says other wise. We have a lot of cute moments and all that stuff so now I'm stuck thinking what are we? Are we friends for real or is there more to it? And I'm also thinking what if we did actually try being together would it be so bad? Yes he have kissed and it was good but we don't speak on it. There is a lot of unanswered questions and I know I can't ask him because then he gets defensive and says he's not gay. But then treats me like we are dating and stuff so like what do I do? Do I let it go and move and not look back on it or do I do something about all this? And if so what ? Whatever this is between us has interfered with so many actual relationships we have had with others that I'm starting to think that I can't actually get into another relationship unless I stop being friends with him completely? So lost confused and I'm running out of time. [emoji25] [emoji27]