How to approach?

[Rareboy]

So...given that the thread was started in February.....I wonder what happened?

[yousir]

Kind of off-topic, but I'm curious. Doesn't the whole 3some thing just invite in a shitload of drama? I mean OK , I could see doing it with a couple guys if we had no emotional ties, just I like them OK and there's sexual attraction. So no one would have hurt feelings or unexpected jealousies or whatever. But if I have a connection with a guy, dating him or a BF or something, maybe I'm uptight and possessive but I know that I would not want to watch him getting it on with someone else...just me, IDK...

Youre not uptight or possessive. you just want an exclusive monogamous relationship.

Seems people confuse, or mess up the concept of relationship. If you include others then its not monogamous.

But if you dont want to include others then youre being uptight and possessive? Wtf???

"we are monogamous but have 3ways / an open relationship". Wtf.