hooking up or dating?

[Nanaki]

I had a couple of hookups in my younger years, but these days, I'm much more into dating. Sadly, there doesn't seem to be any men in my area who feel the same way.

[TwisttheLeaf]

When I was single, it was kind of a "hook ups with the same guys" kind of thing, yeah?

Or maybe serial dating without the interest in it going beyond sex and a good time is more accurate.

[LJay]

I hate fishing and dates are too full of carbohydrates.

Screwing is fun.

[MikeW]

Neither, because at this advanced age I am a non-practicing homosexual.

I'd think at our advanced age, we would have practiced enough already, no?

[Wade]

I'd think at our advanced age, we would have practiced enough already, no?

At what point, then, does one become an accomplished homosexual? Is there a party when it happens?

[MikeW]

At what point, then, does one become an accomplished homosexual? Is there a party when it happens?

Well, I don't know if there is a set number. Mine was my 40th birthday. We *literally* had nude boys swinging from the trapeze.

[Lycanthropist]

I'd think at our advanced age, we would have practiced enough already, no?

Oh, if that were true. Sex for me has been sporadic at best, and a veritable wasteland at worst that stretches for years. It's not that I'm a Quasimodo, but I can't seem to make a connection with anyone that I'm attracted to, even if it were just for friendship. Woe is me.

[Barefoot]

I'll date or hook up until Mr. Right comes along, then I belong only to him.

[sofun74sun]

It can be extremely frustrating! Anyone else have that issue?

[trywait]

Im into relationships but my boyfriend is into dating...
so im happy as we are, but he goes out for sex.
Its not the best outcome but it does work.
He gets regular sex from one guy that satisfy him.

Anyway, the point is, even if you want different things you can make it work

to each their own. and it is up to the people in the relationship to decide.