03-12-2015, 09:10 PM
Darius Wrote:Justme, we understand where you are coming from, but you can't expect us to just let your age and the ages of the couple who used you go unnoticed.
Sexuality is a complicated thing and none of us can tell you what yours is from what you have shared.
Is it possible that this man appeals to you other than just sexually? You say you love him, could that be because you lack love from/for your own father? Maybe he is some sort of masculine ideal for you? Add sex that you enjoyed to the equation and you are left confused when you got dumped.
I know you don't want to cause him or his family any trouble and I am pretty sure you won't, but it's too bad they didn't feel the same about you. They used you and most likely used other young guys before you (and will again). They should be stopped, but I understand that you are too afraid to be the one to do that.
Maybe delay any further sex with anyone else until you are old enough to handle it. OK?
Glad you are here to talk to us, though.
He was kind of like a role model in a sense. I don't like my dad he's pretty much an asshole.