"Love" or lust?

[Rareboy]

Keep both of them.

[Darius]

You stick it in #1 , the guy you love, while #2 , the guy you lust for, sticks it in you. Problem solved, everyone is happy.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

You can teach a guy how to be a better sex fiend - you can't teach a fellow how to be a better lover.

[princealbertofb]

You can teach a guy how to be a better sex fiend - you can't teach a fellow how to be a better lover.

That sounds profound. Can you expatiate?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

When I met my first lover I had no real clue on how to do a lot of the sexual stuff that I am rather talented at now. Through patience and gentle persuasion Robert taught me a great deal.

Lovers - as in love is an emotion which no one can control. You can't make a person love you - well technically one can make them have a form of love but its all messy and psychologically unhealthy for all parties concerned.