Redifining myself; Becoming a player.

[meridannight]

this sounds like a complete rant and nothing more [MENTION=21000]verysimple[/MENTION]. ''redefining'' yourself because of a couple of bad experiences doesn't show resilience/immunity. it shows weakness.

when you go through difficult times without scarring yourself at the core, without running away to put on a different mask, that's strength. that's the way to live.

[Bricg1970]

Take your time out on your own, it helps, not all the world is like that, don't become someone you are not, and next time you will be more cautious,

[verysimple]

this sounds like a complete rant and nothing more [MENTION=21000]verysimple[/MENTION]. ''redefining'' yourself because of a couple of bad experiences doesn't show resilience/immunity. it shows weakness.

when you go through difficult times without scarring yourself at the core, without running away to put on a different mask, that's strength. that's the way to live.

U should know the people who did this to me are some of the closest ppl ever... If I didn't react that way, then I would have been careless from the beginning and I would have faked my feelings.. u k as in liar which isn't me!
So it isn't a rant when I go somewhere to vent about it.

[verysimple]

this sounds like a complete rant and nothing more [MENTION=21000]verysimple[/MENTION]. ''redefining'' yourself because of a couple of bad experiences doesn't show resilience/immunity. it shows weakness.

when you go through difficult times without scarring yourself at the core, without running away to put on a different mask, that's strength. that's the way to live.

U should know the people who did this to me are some of the closest ppl ever... If I didn't react that way, then I would have been careless from the beginning and I would have faked my feelings.. u k as in liar which isn't me!
So it isn't a rant when I go somewhere to vent about it.

[padawanskinky]

breaktime heal you heart

[Watermark]

Don't let them turn yourself in to something you aren't and don't loose your faith in humans despite those who let you down. Be strong!

[CaptainAwesome]

Life is full of ups and downs. Just remember it always gets better. You'll be a much stronger individual after all this.
Like Mike said, don't tread down that IDGAF path, that's where the downward spiral begins.

Ps: I suck at giving advice, so thought of aiding you w/ some words of inspiration. All the best, Verysimple.