05-26-2015, 11:28 PM
Wow...I can't believe I'm doing this, but I need to get some advice and this seems like a good place to go.
I'm 37, never been with a guy before, I've been with multiple women (and I still love to be with a woman)...but, for many years (around 10-15 years) I've thought about finding a guy to be with. Right now the thought in my mind is about a sexual experience with a guy, but I am looking for very specific.
I don't want to get or give oral sex. I don't want to kiss. I would really prefer a guy that is very feminine (a cross-dresser/transvestite would be fine/good). Right now I don't want a relationship, but anything can happen with something new.
Here's another thing, and I'm hoping others can relate: If I am going to have a sexual experience with another guy I DON'T want a guy that is well-hung (3-5 inches would be fine...I am a little above average, I've been called "big"), and I want to be bottom (I've done a little research on this...). Of course safe sex is something I want as well.
As the years go by I find myself wanting this more and more, and I feel like I'm going to miss out on something I need to experience if I don't go forward with it.
Where do I start? How do I keep it discreet? Am I being too picky? I really don't know what to do next...any advice?...
I'm 37, never been with a guy before, I've been with multiple women (and I still love to be with a woman)...but, for many years (around 10-15 years) I've thought about finding a guy to be with. Right now the thought in my mind is about a sexual experience with a guy, but I am looking for very specific.
I don't want to get or give oral sex. I don't want to kiss. I would really prefer a guy that is very feminine (a cross-dresser/transvestite would be fine/good). Right now I don't want a relationship, but anything can happen with something new.
Here's another thing, and I'm hoping others can relate: If I am going to have a sexual experience with another guy I DON'T want a guy that is well-hung (3-5 inches would be fine...I am a little above average, I've been called "big"), and I want to be bottom (I've done a little research on this...). Of course safe sex is something I want as well.
As the years go by I find myself wanting this more and more, and I feel like I'm going to miss out on something I need to experience if I don't go forward with it.
Where do I start? How do I keep it discreet? Am I being too picky? I really don't know what to do next...any advice?...