Sex Ruined My Life

[Virge]

Yeah. It makes perfect sense to blame your own misery on abstractions. It sure saves you from having to put forth energy to take responsibility for what you're saying sex has done to mess up your life.

[princealbertofb]

I was going to say all the answers are just forgetting that India is not America. The same solutions don't always apply. You need to think outside the box , guys.

[princealbertofb]

^ Pretty much this.

It doesn't matter where you live though. Now that you are no longer a little boy or an adolescent, you just need to get your head around the fact that you can't have everything, so choose your priority. If it is moving back to be with your mother, then suck it up and don't complain about the lack of sex during the time you live there...although I still don't get why you couldn't take a trip every few months for a weekend in the big city so that you could still get laid.

Well, I surely don't need to remind a Canadian of the lay of the land. India 's a huge country too. Supposing moving around the country is not so easy as you seem to think? Indianboy says his family's fairly wealthy but does that mean getting around the country is easy? I'd be finding out the details first. For all we know we're misinformed.

[princealbertofb]

I agree, however, that this is about taking an adult decision about priorities. Is the original poster thinking he misses his mum too much (or maybe he's worried about her being a widow and single) but at the same time he's got to think about his own needs, those that keep him both sane and (presumably) safe.
Good luck finding the answer.