06-17-2015, 09:17 PM
So I met this guy about 3/4 months ago, he's 18 I'm 21, we've been chatting on skype literally everyday, playing some games together, we have allot in common and just can't get enough of talking with each other, sending pictures/videos(not anything sexual of course just like me playing with my dog for example and what not)
So 2 weeks ago the 7th of June he came to my house, it was the first time meeting and while I told him meeting in public was just fine he really wanted to come to my house, so he came to my house(and just as a safety precaution someone else was at home even though I trusted him)I was eternally grateful for that as I can't use public transport without feeling sick and sometimes even nearly fainting.
We had a absolutely wonderful day, it started off as just playing games together on the pc, but eventually he made the first move and he lied on my bed and just cuddled for hours, and when I say hours I mean from about 13:00 till like 22:00, we hugged, cuddled kissed and even french kissed a couple of times though that only happens much later on the day, we also took off our shirts but only that to enjoy the cuddling even more, it was the most enjoyable day of my life, I had never felt so loved in my entire life and instantly fell in love with him. Eventually though he had to leave and we said goodbye with a hug and a kiss.
Now with that alone I was wondering if it was going too quickly because of the french kissing but then there is the second meet-up which was today.
It started of with just immediately jumping onto the bed and cuddling while talking about some things now and then(which we of course also did the previous time), outside cuddling I had no expectations whatsoever, this time we also spent a significant amount of time just lying together in bed, from about 12:00 till 19:30, though this time it went further, as we were lying in bed slowly more clothes were going away, shirt > pants > boxers until we were completely naked which was not what I expected at all, like this we cuddles some more and after he initiated we started masturbating each other, this day was even better then the previous meet-up and was just thinking how lucky I am to meet someone like that, it just all happened naturally and I don't regret any of it, wouldn't even dare to think that, and once again at the end we said goodbye with a hug and a kiss.
Now I really am wondering if things are progressing too quickly, I tried searching on the internet but I only find such topics about straight relationships and I don't know if it's different when it comes to gay relationships. So yeah I'd like to know if it's normal to transition this quickly from cuddling to french kissing to mutual masturbation, he and I have both never been in a relationship before or have even dated for that matters so neither of us really knows if things could be going too quickly.
So 2 weeks ago the 7th of June he came to my house, it was the first time meeting and while I told him meeting in public was just fine he really wanted to come to my house, so he came to my house(and just as a safety precaution someone else was at home even though I trusted him)I was eternally grateful for that as I can't use public transport without feeling sick and sometimes even nearly fainting.
We had a absolutely wonderful day, it started off as just playing games together on the pc, but eventually he made the first move and he lied on my bed and just cuddled for hours, and when I say hours I mean from about 13:00 till like 22:00, we hugged, cuddled kissed and even french kissed a couple of times though that only happens much later on the day, we also took off our shirts but only that to enjoy the cuddling even more, it was the most enjoyable day of my life, I had never felt so loved in my entire life and instantly fell in love with him. Eventually though he had to leave and we said goodbye with a hug and a kiss.
Now with that alone I was wondering if it was going too quickly because of the french kissing but then there is the second meet-up which was today.
It started of with just immediately jumping onto the bed and cuddling while talking about some things now and then(which we of course also did the previous time), outside cuddling I had no expectations whatsoever, this time we also spent a significant amount of time just lying together in bed, from about 12:00 till 19:30, though this time it went further, as we were lying in bed slowly more clothes were going away, shirt > pants > boxers until we were completely naked which was not what I expected at all, like this we cuddles some more and after he initiated we started masturbating each other, this day was even better then the previous meet-up and was just thinking how lucky I am to meet someone like that, it just all happened naturally and I don't regret any of it, wouldn't even dare to think that, and once again at the end we said goodbye with a hug and a kiss.
Now I really am wondering if things are progressing too quickly, I tried searching on the internet but I only find such topics about straight relationships and I don't know if it's different when it comes to gay relationships. So yeah I'd like to know if it's normal to transition this quickly from cuddling to french kissing to mutual masturbation, he and I have both never been in a relationship before or have even dated for that matters so neither of us really knows if things could be going too quickly.