Do you need to be 'broken in'?

[himself]

That sounds good, for two reasons. I think ice would ease the pain, and I'm hungry so I could eat the steak after it thaws.

[Anocxu]

That sounds good, for two reasons. I think ice would ease the pain, and I'm hungry so I could eat the steak after it thaws.

Lmao...
Lol...
Dinner with you should be very interesting...

Wow!!!

[himself]

Steak is only for special occasions. Usually, I just have nose-pickings.

[Anocxu]

Steak is only for special occasions. Usually, I just have nose-pickings.

Paleo!!! Yummy...

[EvenOlderButWiser]

Bag of frozen peas, straight from the freezer wrapped in a towel.

Works every time

Q: Do you give a hand job to everyone who buys you a drink? (Checks boat times to NI )

[himself]

Maybe it's because I am sleepy right now, but I can't stop thinking about being penetrated against my will. To be clear, me bottoming was completely my idea last night - none of it was against my will, not that there was much of it. It stopped almost immediately after it began. But I'm practising clenching my asshole now, just in case. Not that that would do any good. There is a metal bar on the floor in front of me and I keep thinking about that getting shoved up my ass. It's not a sexual fantasy, I just keep thinking that I couldn't stop someone from trying to split me open, as yer man said up there. Next time I think of going home with a boy, I should just go home and do a crossword or watch cartoons.

[Virge]

After rimming and fingering...
Your top should have an idea what your "capacity" is...?

Those first few minutes of penetration can set the tone for the entire sexual experience.

Btw .. you are the bottom... you have control...
If a top looks eager to "bust in" you'll know..
He rushes foreplay..is inattentive to your responses... just rushing to get to your .......

You should set the pace... not him.
A caring top should encourage you to set the pace instead of trying to split you open like a coconut...

Take more control ...
Hugs

^^^^^^^^^^ good advice.

My 1st experience with a guy was with a dude who was as inexperience as I was... I penetrated him but I didn't know all the techniques so it was pretty crude. ... but to me and with my zero experience it was great.

2nd time was over a year later with a guy who was an experienced top who had bottomed some. I was so horned up and ready to rape he ended up bottoming at the beach after dark. After that he took me to his house for three days Hahahaha and TAUGHT ME EVERYTHING.

And for bottoming... a really good top ought to do all he can to make sure you enjoy every bit of it... and not do it like it's done in porn

[Virge]

Maybe it's because I am sleepy right now, but I can't stop thinking about being penetrated against my will. To be clear, me bottoming was completely my idea last night - none of it was against my will, not that there was much of it. It stopped almost immediately after it began. But I'm practising clenching my asshole now, just in case. Not that that would do any good. There is a metal bar on the floor in front of me and I keep thinking about that getting shoved up my ass. It's not a sexual fantasy, I just keep thinking that I couldn't stop someone from trying to split me open, as yer man said up there. Next time I think of going home with a boy, I should just go home and do a crossword or watch cartoons.

^^^^^^^^^^
My guy definitely likes me to overpower him in the foreplay and penetration... but after that turning him lose is great... he gets greedy about it...

[Anocxu]

^^^^^^^^^^ good advice.

My 1st experience with a guy was with a dude who was as inexperience as I was... I penetrated him but I didn't know all the techniques so it was pretty crude. ... but to me and with my zero experience it was great.

2nd time was over a year later with a guy who was an experienced top who had bottomed some. I was so horned up and ready to rape he ended up bottoming at the beach after dark. After that he took me to his house for three days Hahahaha and TAUGHT ME EVERYTHING.

And for bottoming... a really good top ought to do all he can to make sure you enjoy every bit of it... and not do it like it's done in porn

Funny enough I had a similar setup when I 28 with a 51 year old....
It was pretty much a few lessons and experimenting...
I really do think if most gay men could find a caring, nurturing FWB .. we would be better lovers..
Awesome post Virge

[Virge]

Funny enough I had a similar setup when I 28 with a 51 year old....
It was pretty much a few lessons and experimenting...
I really do think if most gay men could find a caring, nurturing FWB .. we would be better lovers..
Awesome post Virge

^^^^^^^^^^^
Too danged funny [MENTION=21156]Anocxu[/MENTION]....

I went through FOUR YEARS of long distance dating (8000 miles) in the FWB phase, scrimping and saving to afford airfare 3 or 4 times a year with the guy I was talking above... before I broke up with him in big ugly way... Hahahahaha... Two weeks later HE made his first 8000 mile flight to come see me and see what we could do to work things out... add four more years of working things out and now he's here with me...

Sure he and I have had serious problems like the mess he and I got into this past March... but rather than break up we backed up, realized what we did best was "date" so he moved 20 minutes away... we began dating again and moved back in a month ago after we worked through the problem we had.

In other words.... we've been through so much over so many years so far we both know we can overcome any problem....

In a way this goes relates to a comment I did yesterday...

We have these stupid things we say when one of us needs some attention or want to give a bunch of it.... "come here and give me some endorphins"... I need some endorphin real bad" "I'm going to make you overdose on endorphin." etc..........

Endorphins are the hormone/self generated love drug we can all produce in others not only through sex but tone of voice, pet names, loads of eye contact, funny/sweets texts/ cuddling, touching, pampering and being silly together... and the good thing about giving endorphins to someone else you love makes your own endorphin levels skyrocket.

It's 8:00 am on a Saturday.... we've been awake two ½ hours already while the house and B&B are quiet ... getting high on endorphins.... bonding being silly and playful and kinky... hahahhaha... I had abdominal surgery last Friday so sex is out of the question... at least the way we do it.... but..... It won't be long and 18 B&B guests will be getting up...(all gay men and lezzies who ride harleys) wanting to eat.... I sure wish I had a t-shirt that says....

Nah nee nah nee nah nah!
I just received 2½ hours
of intense foreplay
and didn't have to move
a muscle and you didn't!

Hahahahaha!

keep it all fun, silly and even do baby talk when it feels right
Keep the endorphins flowing.