Anocxu Wrote:Funny enough I had a similar setup when I 28 with a 51 year old....
It was pretty much a few lessons and experimenting...
I really do think if most gay men could find a caring, nurturing FWB .. we would be better lovers..
Awesome post Virge
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Too danged funny [MENTION=21156]Anocxu[/MENTION]....
I went through FOUR YEARS of long distance dating (8000 miles) in the
FWB phase, scrimping and saving to afford airfare 3 or 4 times a year with the guy I was talking above... before I broke up with him in big ugly way... Hahahahaha... Two weeks later HE made his first 8000 mile flight to come see me and see what we could do to work things out... add four more years of working things out and now he's here with me...
Sure he and I have had serious problems like the mess he and I got into this past March... but rather than break up we backed up, realized what we did best was "date" so he moved 20 minutes away... we began dating again and moved back in a month ago after we worked through the problem we had.
In other words.... we've been through so much over so many years so far we both know we can overcome any problem....
In a way this goes relates to a comment I did yesterday...
We have these stupid things we say when one of us needs some attention or want to give a bunch of it.... "come here and give me some endorphins"... I need some endorphin real bad" "I'm going to make you overdose on endorphin." etc..........
Endorphins are the hormone/self generated love drug we can all produce in others not only through sex but tone of voice, pet names, loads of eye contact, funny/sweets texts/ cuddling, touching, pampering and being silly together... and the good thing about giving endorphins to someone else you love makes your own endorphin levels skyrocket.
It's 8:00 am on a Saturday.... we've been awake two ½ hours already while the house and B&B are quiet ... getting high on endorphins.... bonding being silly and playful and kinky... hahahhaha... I had abdominal surgery last Friday so sex is out of the question... at least the way we do it.... but..... It won't be long and 18 B&B guests will be getting up...(all gay men and lezzies who ride harleys) wanting to eat.... I sure wish I had a t-shirt that says....
Nah nee nah nee nah nah!
I just received 2½ hours
of intense foreplay
and didn't have to move
a muscle and you didn't!
Hahahahaha!
keep it all fun, silly and even do baby talk when it feels right
Keep the endorphins flowing.