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[Anocxu]

Hey..
Thanks for replying..
So you and I have one thing in common we are attracted to bull headed guys.. and they are attracted to us. :-P

You chalked up your relationship for us .. if its good 70-80 % of the time .. its not bad at all..
Now I understand you'd love to take things from 'good' to 'great'.. Doing that can take some time.
Now..
The porn addiction..
It's fair to say..
When you date a guy..
You also date his porn collection .
It's not a bad thing..but.. he needs to understand he is no longer single and you should encourage him to re-establish some boundaries..the guys above suggested watching together..
It can put stress on a relationship if you two can't resolve the related issues..but its not a deal breaker..
Considering you're dating a hard headed guy..it wont be easy .. on the other hand 80% of the time he's a sweetheart?..
It won't ever be perfect..

So you should wait for the right time to talk it through with him..till then ..make the best of it.

The narcissism...
If you can figure out his story behind this attitude ..this is another thing you two can work on.

For now..
Hang in there.
If he cares the way you said he does..
He'll make an effort.

Hard headed men and their stubborn habits..
Look through the relationship threads..
You'll see what other members here put up with..
Hugs..

[kjames]

Bingo!

I have seen this..
I have lived this..

Thanks for the bingo comment. I laughed for a few minutes then thought...uh oh...me too.

[Anocxu]

Thanks for the bingo comment. I laughed for a few minutes then thought...uh oh...me too.

Lol..
My online theatrics is kinda lame..

[kjames]

Lol..
My online theatrics is kinda lame..

A kind of light bulb moment where you realize where things may have gone wrong. I think I need to keep laughing about it and call it a learning experience.

[Anocxu]

A kind of light bulb moment where you realize where things may have gone wrong. I think I need to keep laughing about it and call it a learning experience.

It seems to be a task of mine around here..
"Laughter"
Life in itself is a nightmare if you are trying to live with integrity..
I say we have fun when we log on!

Now who wants a roofie!!?

[Virge]

I think the idea of porn in a relationship can make someone superficial.

Suddenly X partner wants his Y partner to look and behave the way Z model looks and behaves in a porno. Suddenly X partner wants more sex rather than being satisfied with what is being given to him out of sheer love. BUT- that being said, if both partners are watching together and are in a mutual agreement that they want to be more like the men in the porn than i think thats healthy. Until the water sports begin---then GGWP

Bingo!

I have seen this..
I have lived this..

Silly rabbits. The best way to solve that is make your own and lots of it. It's great. We like to watch "us" doing it and try to do what "us" on the screen is doing, and do it better or at least as good as "us" did the first time.

[Anocxu]

[MENTION=21084]Virge[/MENTION]
Aren't you supposed to be on vacation?
Where in Amercuh are you now?

[Virge]

[MENTION=21084]Virge[/MENTION]
Aren't you supposed to be on vacation?
Where in Amercuh are you now?

In Pensacola now. Leaving when Jay wakes up to drive east and see what we run into. I know we are headed to some restaurant called Red Bay Store to have lunch. After that we don't know. We brought the canoe and want to use it for traveling backwaters today sometime or tomorrow.. or the next day or all all of them. I'm glad I brought my laptop. He was serious before we left home when he said he didn't want me waking him up until he was ready to get up.

[Camfer]

In Pensacola now. Leaving when Jay wakes up to drive east and see what we run into.

Eventually that would be the Atlantic Ocean. You should stop before you run into it. Even the canoe will not be enough.

[Anocxu]

In Pensacola now. Leaving when Jay wakes up to drive east and see what we run into. I know we are headed to some restaurant called Red Bay Store to have lunch. After that we don't know. We brought the canoe and want to use it for traveling backwaters today sometime or tomorrow.. or the next day or all all of them. I'm glad I brought my laptop. He was serious before we left home when he said he didn't want me waking him up until he was ready to get up.

Well ..
I'm glad you finally got your vacation/ honeymoon..
I'll wait till after the 16th to resume terrorize your mailbox with ALL my problems..
Hugs..
:-P