Northlad Wrote:I feel unwelcome everywhere in life
Northlad,,, when the world seems to be against you - you gotta turn it around.
Start by looking at people & things around you in a positive light.
Push yourself to be more engaging with people. Start a light hearted conversation about how nice the weather is today, or how you can't wait for Friday to come around so you can enjoy the weekend. Always keep the conversation up-beat and positive.
Give complements to people when you can. Let them know that you like them, and they will be more likely to say favorable things about you.
I find that simply smiling at the people I meet everyday helps open the door to a friendlier atmosphere which makes me feel better and also helps others to feel at easy right away.
I'm an old man and my looks won't get me anywhere. But,, when I put out a friendly & positive attitude, people find me interesting and worth getting to know. Some days it's an effort to keep that smile going and be engaging, but I wouldn't have a friend in the world unless I kept pushing myself to be friendly with people who wouldn't normally give me the time of day.
So,,, put on a big smile, engage people in a friendly conversation, and be positive...
Sincerely,
Jim
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