Horned up chat

[MikeW]

Actually I wasn't think about any of those things at all... Just curious. I never really got into swapping pictures and all that, just didn't feel good doing it is all... I blame that for my time wasted on Grindr, at least around here a lot of the guys on there are pricks and do expect a supermodel with a 12" dick. I have had people outright call me ugly and never had previous interaction with them...it happened on more than one occasion too. It is easy to make assumptions like that but while I might be naive and ignorant about a lot of things I am pretty open minded for the most part. So a lot of times when I ask questions it's not "ewww, internet sex!" it more like "what's the hype about? Am I missing out on something?"

Anyway, I think everyone is entitled to do whatever they please so long they're not hurting anyone else...but that doesn't include feelings, people get their butts hurt too often these days.

I was mostly just joking around with my posts. I've never done what [MENTION=21778]Lexington[/MENTION] is talking about ( @Lex, nice to see you around). The closest I've come to any of this was a JO session with a (to me) very hot young guy who INITIATED the whole thing (camming). That was several years ago. Perhaps like you I'm very self conscious about the way I look on cam. Some guys look really hot... me, not so much. And it isn't that they're necessarily "super models" -- a lot of it has to do with lighting, camera angle, one thing and another. Me... I'm just too lazy (and not interested enough) to work it all out. Who knows that may change someday but for now that's how it is.

I'm wondering about your "people get their butts hurt too often these days." comment on one hand and your, " I have had people outright call me ugly and never had previous interaction with them...it happened on more than one occasion too" comment on the other. How do you square those two POV?

[InbetweenDreams]

I think people are offended by small stupid crap these days. Specifically political nonsense, it is like a damn circus what we have being passed off as politicians, no wonder the rest of the world thinks our government is about to implode. I dare not to open a discussion, I'm no expert, but I don't have to be to see that things are a wreck and it's going to take more than voting to fix it.

Did it hurt my feelings when this guy messaged me saying (exact quote), "I know you edited your pics but your still fat" Of course it did, I know I'm overweight and could lose a few pounds, did I got cut my wrists or make a big deal? Nope. Instead I told him "and you're still ugly. so f@#$% you" and blocked the guy. I have had other similar occurrences but I find people that do that crap have image issues themselves, they make themselves feel better by shitting on other people.

Am I ashamed of how I look, well I guess I would be liar if I said I didn't. It would be selfish of me to require everyone to tell me I look fabulous and I should be featured in a magazine. I'd say that would be hilariously terrible. I know that some people will consider me to be fat, some guys might also find me quite attractive. It is subjective. But it is the same, suppose I call someone ugly, or I think they're a piece of shit, well I should expect to be told to go F myself and go walk into oncoming traffic. I think there is a difference between some random person being negative and someone being all worked up over a poorly written article on the internet...

I have been enjoying this season of South Park I will say...

And sorry for the foul language, some boards not too keen on that, so I did censor a few things, but I think like George Carlin, they enhance ideas....doesn't mean we should be sloppy with them.

[Aquarius]

I'm totally into cute, younger guys.. 20-25 or so. Especially shorter than me is a big plus. Need to hug them all over and so I can be a bit dominant with him.

What gets me *horny*? Nice feet is an immediate turn on. Tattoos mostly too, but there can also be bad examples. Combine that, hot and well tattooed feet, and I'll almost marry you. Tattooed chests and faces turn me on as well, as long as it isnt too creepy. I wouldn't get a tattoo myself though, I think. It's just driving me crazy seeing that on a cute guy.

[LJay]

Axle, Axle you are NOT ugly. Not at all.

Send those people to me. I'll open their heads and show them ugly.

[InbetweenDreams]

Axle, Axle you are NOT ugly. Not at all.

Send those people to me. I'll open their heads and show them ugly.

lol I know I'm not ugly but I know I'm no model. I don't think I look good without clothes lol I mean I have seen worse than myself, but I'm not going to snap nudies of myself and send them to people...not even the type to do that anyway even if I was in good shape.

Younger guys are very attractive, but I don't really consider them for serious dating, most are too immature. 25 and up seems to be a good spot for my tastes.

[LJay]

well you have a good, solid face and that looks like it might be a wine bottle on the counter in back of you. Everyone knows a wine bottle adds to attractiveness.

A friend of mine once asked a priest what to do with his connections in regard to landing a position. The priest listened to the anxious story and then said, "Use what you got."

Good advice for you and lots of other guys, Axle.

That dimple in your chin could be quite handy. heh heh...

[Lexington]

Well, I'd say maybe 1% of people are what you might call undeniably attractive - as in "even if this isn't my 'thing', I can see how other people would find this person attractive". The rest of us exist in that huge pool of "average" or "ordinary". We've got good points and bad points. And there are those who will be drawn to us, and others who won't be interested. It's a bit easy to fall into the trap of thinking that if you're not in that upper echelon that nobody would be interested. And that just isn't the case.

Lex

[Anonymous]

It makes sense. I just would find it a bit awkward. I would feel a bit uncomfortable partaking in that. But I think that is partially to some other personal issues... I don't find myself to be all that attractive, at least not in that sense to be on a webcam...I'm assuming webcams are involved... I'm not knocking it or think differently about people who do internet sex, I'm merely curious about what the hoopla is about.

Keep in mind I live in a rural area and not very many gay guys around nor has there been anyone to really talk to about these sort of things...among other things.

You don't think your attractive???? I look at your profile pic, and think damn he's hot. I'd totally have webcam sex with ya.

The hoopla I think is that you can have some fun with people and not have to worry about picking anything up. I've met a few interesting people. You say you live in a small town? That doesn't matter when guys from all around the world will have fun online for you for free. There are plenty of sites where you can do this. One of which I frequent is Cam4. Not the greatest site, but I've met some pretty cool people there and it gets the job done.

So for the topic at hand I'd have to say that hairy guys get me turned on. Especially if he is just a little stocky. Just enough, but not too much. As long as sex things don't get to crazy I don't mind.

And for anyone wonder's why this post is anonymous I don't want people to know I use Cam4.

[Anocxu]

A friend of mine once asked a priest what to do with his connections in regard to landing positions.

That dimple in your chin could be quite handy. heh heh...

[InbetweenDreams]

You don't think your attractive???? I look at your profile pic, and think damn he's hot. I'd totally have webcam sex with ya.

The hoopla I think is that you can have some fun with people and not have to worry about picking anything up. I've met a few interesting people. You say you live in a small town? That doesn't matter when guys from all around the world will have fun online for you for free. There are plenty of sites where you can do this. One of which I frequent is Cam4. Not the greatest site, but I've met some pretty cool people there and it gets the job done.

So for the topic at hand I'd have to say that hairy guys get me turned on. Especially if he is just a little stocky. Just enough, but not too much. As long as sex things don't get to crazy I don't mind.

And for anyone wonder's why this post is anonymous I don't want people to know I use Cam4.

lol Well thanks, but not sure about the webcam sex stuff lol One question I do have, suppose you have a boyfriend would internet sex cross any lines? I mean to me it would seem that it would. Then again I might be too loyal for my own good...when good guys do come around...

But I do have image issues...I hate taking selfies...This one took many attempts...