Cumming on top

[nm1012]

I've topped plenty of times, and I think I'm good for it (let's just say I fill it well lol).
However, I've never once came inside without jerking off after. I wonder if the condom just reduces my sensitivity. Anyone experienced anything like this? I know I could just bottom instead, but I think I'd still prefer topping (and I know the guys like it lol).

[LJay]

Only thing I can say is that you should stop by and we'll discuss it.

[Insertnamehere]

Are you nervous during it? That maybe also be a factor.

[nm1012]

Are you nervous during it? That maybe also be a factor.

Nope. I was when I first started, but I've done it so many times now that there aren't any nerves. Only issue is sometimes the guy can't handle the size (lol) but I still definitely go all out once he's able.

[TwisttheLeaf]

[MENTION=23123]Alto[/MENTION]'s suggestion may be a good option to try.

It could also be that, no matter how good an ass feels, your hand is more familiar to your dick. Our bodies get "trained" to respond to certain sensations. Too much jerking off the same exact way every time and suddenly you can find yourself unable to blow to anything but your own fist used in exactly -that- way. So it could be that you need to un-train your dick, yeah?

[Bhp91126]

[MENTION=23123]Alto[/MENTION]'s suggestion may be a good option to try.

It could also be that, no matter how good an ass feels, your hand is more familiar to your dick. Our bodies get "trained" to respond to certain sensations. Too much jerking off the same exact way every time and suddenly you can find yourself unable to blow to anything but your own fist used in exactly -that- way. So it could be that you need to un-train your dick, yeah?

This!
Esp. if you are using a death-grip while jerking off, or sand-paper. :biggrin:. You have to retrain your dick to respond to softer stimulation like from an ass or a mouth...

[nm1012]

[MENTION=23123]Alto[/MENTION]'s suggestion may be a good option to try.

It could also be that, no matter how good an ass feels, your hand is more familiar to your dick. Our bodies get "trained" to respond to certain sensations. Too much jerking off the same exact way every time and suddenly you can find yourself unable to blow to anything but your own fist used in exactly -that- way. So it could be that you need to un-train your dick, yeah?

I've figured this might be it...but I'm not sure how I can stop myself from jerking off for that long of a time hahaha.

[Camfer]

Yes, try different condoms. Try different lubes and not too much of it. Avoid masturbation for a couple of days before you have sex. Find a position that gives you more stimulation.

Keep us posted. I hope your story has a happy ending!

[Insertnamehere]

Nope. I was when I first started, but I've done it so many times now that there aren't any nerves. Only issue is sometimes the guy can't handle the size (lol) but I still definitely go all out once he's able.

Then I have to agree with the rest and frame it on the differing sensations. Certainly jacking off is not the same, condoms also change things, so yeah, what everyone else said.

Also, if I may ask, just how much time are you giving yourself to reach climax? Do you just give up after....x time and then jack off? You could try just going with it maybe?

[MikeW]

This thread.

Damn!

:eek:

Bottoms up, Dude!