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Plan ahead...
Hide a key outside. Hide bats/clubs... around the house. Plan a safe room you can lock yourself in.
If you have to for leverage, do let him know WE ALL know in great detail what he's done and will come looking for you if you're missing.
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Okay Beaux, now I do recall you mentioning something about the Salvation Army. It reflects poorly on our society that you do not have help available to you just because you're broke gay guy with no kids.
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Oh and by the way, he leaves tomorrow for a four-day trip out of town for work. So at least I'll get a break.
~Beaux
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Being 22 and having done absolutely nothing in my entire life, I still feel entitled to my opinion on everything. So, here it goes. He seems scary. The thing that concerned me most wasn't the suspicious death of his ex-partner. It's the fact that he wanted to get you to confess to being abusive towards him. He may actually believe that you are the abuser. Apparently, it's called 'gaslighting' - bullies / abusers try to convince themselves and their victims that their victims are bad. I would say get out before he strings you up but I suppose it is more difficult than that.
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you say he is So nice, So companionate etc. That's an abusers trademark I do believe !! I would take this up coming 4 days he's away to get a place in one of the shelters if poss like the other guys suggest mate - at least take a look at it anyway. Im not saying he did do anything to Robbie but staying there for financial reasons for the time being does you no good at all if you end up the same way as him - I would rather be poor and alive than any alternative - plus you can arrange for return to be sent to another address so you can sort your future out from that point on
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