Was I wrong

[LJay]

It takes a hard shell and a lot of patience to deal with this kind of guy. While he is being busy just feel free to continue dating anyone you like. No reason to pine and put yourself in a box for storage because of him. Just be civil and move on.

[Dan90]

I feel that he isn't interested in this relationship. But he make you think that you still has a chance, play game with you.
He wasn't right for you. It was a very bad experience, but don't let it get you down. You'll find someone to believe.

[Anonymous]

thanks a lot for the messages. Some of them really helped. I just needed to hear it from other people I guess. I have deleted all his contact details and just want to move on but I won't be dating anybody for quite a while as I find it exhausting.

[Chase]

It's good that you deleted all of his contact info.
Usually when people stop messaging me after a date, I assume they're not interested and I delete all contact info.
It's hard for people to say "I'm sorry, but I don't want a relationship with you" so instead they try and fade out your life, hoping you take the hint.
I try to be better than that, so when a guy likes me but I don't like him, I'll be frank and say I'd like to just stay friends. A lot of people don't want to be friends with someone they once dated, but I did befriend a really nice guy this way.
Gay or straight, I don't think there's anyway around this. If you want to find a relationship, you're going to have to deal with it.

[Anonymous]

It's good that you deleted all of his contact info.
Usually when people stop messaging me after a date, I assume they're not interested and I delete all contact info..

I have done this myself and know it's true but I was thinking back to one of the times I sent a message and he was like "no I definitely do want to see you again" and actually that happened two or three times before I really lost it

I feel sad because I genuinely did enjoy our date I may of been too impatient, now I know he will never talk to me

I need to forget him