I think this guy on the internet likes me?
05-07-2016, 02:16 PM
So, first of all, I want to point out, that of course, we're both guys. I'm 21, he's 25. I know for a fact he's gay because it says so on his Skype profile. We've known each other for about a month now. At first we would just chat here and there since we found we had some common interests and all, but now it's gotten to the point to where we talk to each other over the internet for up to 3-5 hours every day before and after we go off to work. We even make sure to tell each other good morning and good night every single day.
Lately though, I noticed he's been acting a little different. For example, a few days back, I went to bed immediately after getting off work, but woke up an hour later after realizing I forgot to tell him goodnight like usual. After telling him goodnight, he sent me a message the next morning telling me i'm really sweet. The next day after that, I told him how I'd be working overtime so I may not be able to talk to him that night, and instead of pushing it aside, he instead told me that he'd wait for me, which surprised me to find out he actually did wait until 2AM, even though he had work that day at 6AM.
Within that time, we've had a lot of conversations that seemed to usually end up in a really flirtatious manner from both sides. For example, one time I made he point that he would be too nervous to ever go to a convention alone as he's a slightly shy person, so I jokingly responded with, "You could come with me sometime then. It'd be a date.". Of course, I said that as a joke, though. Another time we were talking about food and I said I would love to taste his cooking, and his response was, "You'll have your chance one day. I promise."
Another thing that really stood out to me, was a moment to where I told him about this thing I wanted to buy on Amazon, but I wasn't sure if it was worth the money, so he offered to buy it for me. This item was $50. I kept telling him not to but he was so persistent, telling me things like, and "It would be no bother, really." and , "Well, I'd like to, if it's you." Eventually we came to a conclusion that we'd buy each other something sometime to make it fair.
And finally, just last night, after telling him that I was going to bed, he sent me this message that came out of nowhere which read, "I always have fun talking with you. I know it hasn't been that long, but I like you a lot. I'm tired, so I hope i'm not getting out of line by telling you that you're a cutie." I, already having possible feelings for him myself, replied with, "No, that's not out of line at all. I like you a lot, too. Although I hope that's been obvious." His response was, "Thank's. You can never be too sure."
There are a quite a few other conversations we've had that seemed to end up pretty romantic in nature, but I'd rather not bring them up as personal as they are.
I'm kind of embarrassed to admit it, and I kinda wish I hadn't now, but I ended our dialogue last night by sending, "Sweet dreams. xoxo. Sorry if that last bit sounded sappy", just to see what his response would be. It was, "You're sappy and it's cute."
We both found out we have the upcoming weekend off, so we agreed to talk all day, Saturday(today). Both saying that there's a lot of things we wanted to talk about. I'm currently waiting for him to log on right now, and for the first time, i'm really nervous
For anyone who has any sort of experience with online relationships, i'm curious if this is legit. Like, does he like me or am I just seeing things that aren't there? I've never really held any sort of romantic feelings for anyone in my daily life. I've never even dated anyone before, but it feels different with this guy. Sorry if this was so long.
Lately though, I noticed he's been acting a little different. For example, a few days back, I went to bed immediately after getting off work, but woke up an hour later after realizing I forgot to tell him goodnight like usual. After telling him goodnight, he sent me a message the next morning telling me i'm really sweet. The next day after that, I told him how I'd be working overtime so I may not be able to talk to him that night, and instead of pushing it aside, he instead told me that he'd wait for me, which surprised me to find out he actually did wait until 2AM, even though he had work that day at 6AM.
Within that time, we've had a lot of conversations that seemed to usually end up in a really flirtatious manner from both sides. For example, one time I made he point that he would be too nervous to ever go to a convention alone as he's a slightly shy person, so I jokingly responded with, "You could come with me sometime then. It'd be a date.". Of course, I said that as a joke, though. Another time we were talking about food and I said I would love to taste his cooking, and his response was, "You'll have your chance one day. I promise."
Another thing that really stood out to me, was a moment to where I told him about this thing I wanted to buy on Amazon, but I wasn't sure if it was worth the money, so he offered to buy it for me. This item was $50. I kept telling him not to but he was so persistent, telling me things like, and "It would be no bother, really." and , "Well, I'd like to, if it's you." Eventually we came to a conclusion that we'd buy each other something sometime to make it fair.
And finally, just last night, after telling him that I was going to bed, he sent me this message that came out of nowhere which read, "I always have fun talking with you. I know it hasn't been that long, but I like you a lot. I'm tired, so I hope i'm not getting out of line by telling you that you're a cutie." I, already having possible feelings for him myself, replied with, "No, that's not out of line at all. I like you a lot, too. Although I hope that's been obvious." His response was, "Thank's. You can never be too sure."
There are a quite a few other conversations we've had that seemed to end up pretty romantic in nature, but I'd rather not bring them up as personal as they are.
I'm kind of embarrassed to admit it, and I kinda wish I hadn't now, but I ended our dialogue last night by sending, "Sweet dreams. xoxo. Sorry if that last bit sounded sappy", just to see what his response would be. It was, "You're sappy and it's cute."
We both found out we have the upcoming weekend off, so we agreed to talk all day, Saturday(today). Both saying that there's a lot of things we wanted to talk about. I'm currently waiting for him to log on right now, and for the first time, i'm really nervous
For anyone who has any sort of experience with online relationships, i'm curious if this is legit. Like, does he like me or am I just seeing things that aren't there? I've never really held any sort of romantic feelings for anyone in my daily life. I've never even dated anyone before, but it feels different with this guy. Sorry if this was so long.
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