06-20-2016, 02:05 PM
bryyzy Wrote:I got my life together. I got a nice job. I got a nice car. I got a nice house. I got everything together. I don't need some old guy telling me what to do. I wont be single forever, just because I don't want an older guy don't mean I will be single. I just don't want one in my life because they are condescending and think they know it all. Well they don't. They know nothing as far as I can tell and only want one thing. So as far as I am concerned. Older guys can stay the hell away from me. I don't need advice or anything. I made my own in the world and I don't need them now. Never will. They aren't attractive, they don't appeal to me.
Those are some pretty big generalizations about older people. I do feel the same way. I'm typically not sexually attracted to older guys. However, for me my interests seem to creep up on the age issue as I get older, not sure if that's typical. I find myself being interested mostly in guys who are at least 23 or older to about the mid 30's. Now being friends with older folks, they're good company have a lot of wisdom.
Old people not keeping up? I went on an 18 mile bike ride with a 67 year old guy, it was a challenge for me to keep up. Now granted he's been doing triathlons for 40 years and I'm about to do my first one next month and so on, but older folks who stay in shape can keep a pretty good pace physically and mentally in a lot of cases. Of course that all depends on the type of lifestyle you're after. I'd rather mingle with the more active crowd than couch potatoes as it help keep me motivated to do the same... Monkey see monkey do.
I don't there's anything wrong with being or not being sexually attracted to older people, it is just a preference. Although I do try to look at age as a number, not a concrete thing. There are guys who are 21 who look 50...and occasionally a 50 year old who looks 25...Just depends on their body type, genetics, whether they're athletic or not. Some people are just blessed...or cursed.
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