top vs bottom

[Anonymous]

Are bottoms alot more effeminate looking than tops?

Also can you tell what a gay guy is a top or a bottom, just by looking at him. e.g. I would think the likes of Gok Wan, Grahame Norton or Julian Clary were bottoms, whereas Rupert Everatt looks more like a top.

Can you tell looking at a gay couple, which one is the bottom and which one is the top?

Thanks

[CardShark]

Are bottoms alot more effeminate looking than tops?

Also can you tell what a gay guy is a top or a bottom, just by looking at him. e.g. I would think the likes of Gok Wan, Grahame Norton or Julian Clary were bottoms, whereas Rupert Everatt looks more like a top.

Can you tell looking at a gay couple, which one is the bottom and which one is the top?

Thanks

I would say on a lot of occasions yes, the more masculine is the typical topper.
But it isn't always the way.

[GaiBlkMan]

in my opinion, someone's look does not determine whether he is top or bottom. i am ultra masculine & my preference is to bottom. i consider myself 50/50 versatile, but top a whole lot more than bottom. it mostly depends on the guy i am with & our chemistry

[marshlander]

No, it does not show on the outside, anon

[princealbertofb]

When you watch gay porn you even think, sometimes, oh he's the one who's going to top and oooh, he's the one who's going to bottom, and in the end, it could be totally the other way round, so no, I don't think you can say that.

[fudger]

Most gay porn is straights doing gay for pay. I dont think you can tell top from bottom, its like saying all gays look different from straights.

[yero69]

Park the stereotypes at the door we are all different :confused:

[fredv3b]

Stereotypes without any truth in them don't survive. We have the stereotypes we have because they contain more than a grain of truth in them. We should just remember they are just stereotypes.

[SPLuna]

so true, in my relationship everyone think im the top and hes the bottom because well my partner is rather femme, but that not the case It just depends in all honestly every relationship, person work differently.

[fjp999]

Interesting how everyones answer is different