Kik chat?

[calo379]

Hi, everyone. Here is my kik: vinnyli


If you would like to chat, please say hi.

[calo379]

I really want to date guys and decide whether or not I should either continue dating, try to be friends or never again. It seems most gay guys just want someone to have sex with, at least the places I am looking. I say this over and over, live in a rural area, not many gay guys, so not too many other routes besides online dating, gay dating apps where most of the guys are looking to screw around.

Kik is nice because I don't have to hand out my number where I am subject to whatever harassment or information gathering. I mean I can almost always type someone's phone number in Facebook and find them, see all kinds of information about them. It is both a good thing to find out more about someone for the prospects of dating but also can be a way for a weirdo to stalk someone.

Not to change the subject but I have had similar thoughts about gay/bi/straight... However, I feel like I am kind of stuck and maybe for a good reason. I think me feeling like I might ought to date women is due to my frustration with men and dating.

I know I want and need to find someone who I can be friends with...but I also want to fuck them lol... I don't want to fuck someone first and then TRY to be friends with them. There are so many guys who either I don't find them interesting, totally incompatible with me (we're talking old Mac floppies and Windows here)...or some guys are just trash. However, it has been my luck that guys who I find both hot and interesting, usually because they're smart...have a heart of gold aren't available for one reason or another...and I'm like goddammit!

Like I'm talking to a guy right now and the feeling I get is that he's not being upfront about his intent... I think he wants a hookup but calling it cuddles... He thinks he's going to drive hour and a half to come to my place, haven't even met him yet, and "cuddle." Yeah he just wants to cuddle after making a 50 mile drive, I'll believe that when me shite turns purple and tastes like orange sherbet. So...that's the common theme, I want to have an LTR...but can we fuck right now? I get the sex is an important thing but I don't think inviting guys over that I haven't previously met is the right thing to do.

I try be hopeful but logic is saying I'm insane to be hopeful...but oh not all guys are the same... I'm telling you there is some kind of conspiracy about where the good guys keep going lol

Hi,

Where do you live in US? I live in California.

[InbetweenDreams]

Hi,

Where do you live in US? I live in California.

On the other side of the country...NC

[JustAperson]

I don't know Kik, but now I do know why so many people have it, you don't need a phone number, like whatsapp does. thats cool.

[VirgoMasquerade]

I use kik! PM if you wanna chat

[Ibex]

It's free right?
And you can chat with anyone from all over the world?
It's for EVERYONE? Like, it's not like Grindr.
While on Grindr, is that only for gay guys or is it for lesbians too? Or does lesbians have their own version?

[Insertnamehere]

In theory for everyone, in practice for a younger target audience....below 25.....usually

[Ibex]

In theory for everyone, in practice for a younger target audience....below 25.....usually

Hmm, but is it like Skype where there is chatrooms and such? Like can you make your own rooms or join other people's room?
Discord has an app though.

On Wednesdays when I'm at my grandmother, I often go into one of her rooms and listen to music while she and my dad is taking a nap in the livingroom.
But just listening to music gets boring, would love to be able to chat with people at times like that.

[Insertnamehere]

^ Yeah I dunno. Everything outside of whatsapp is really weird to me.

[heshal]

Ah so that is what kik is!

Bloody hell I must be getting older lol!

Yeah, come to Kik. I searched you in pof, couldn't find.