Yeah I felt the same way when the laws changed and homosexuality was no longer treated with electro-shock therapy and even became acceptable to the AMA.
I also shed a tear when Gay culture suffered the tragic loss of the Sodomy Laws, or at least the enforcement of those laws. In the USA.
Recall the stonewall riots? Were you even alive back then?
Anyway, gay
culture in the USA was really repressed, to the point where after many arrests and raids the gay community lashed back out at it all.
Gay culture died.... The gay culture of the 1960's.
Technically we gays do not have a 'culture'.
Yes we have history, and we have symbols that are shared globally, but we do not have a 'culture'.
Sneaking around in a dark bar 'hiding' from the straight world is NOT a culture. It is a horrible crime committed against us, an affront to human sensibilities, an echo of earlier persecutions which frankly we should all want to become history as soon as possible not only for the western world but for the whole world.
The older you get then the clearer it becomes that there no such thing as a 'gay culture'. Gay lifestyle, yes. Gay history, yes... but Gay culture - no. It is impossible.
Why? Because unlike all of the other 'cultures' in the world, we are a people composed of diversity. Being 'gay' is not just the thing of a specific race or nation or family line, it is a global, international, multi-cultural community that is trying way too hard to identify itself as 'other' when it should actually be celebrating that diversity.
The secret is that when it comes to melting pots, The LGBT community is the ONLY true melting pot that actually does consist of samplings from the diversity of humanity in equal portion.