Trembling... Turn on or off?

[Camfer]

I believe you are over thinking it and second guessing what was a great time for you both.

Best way to figure it out is to get back together with him more often. You will get more comfortable with it with more experience.

Really, it's all fine.

[princealbertofb]

[MENTION=24126]NewToThis[/MENTION], I love it in porn videos when the guy having his orgasm trembles from being so tuned up and turned on. It's very sexy, but often in porn, there is the disappointment of them having to show the ejaculation and the ejaculate, so the actors rarely get to the point where they don't have to jerk themselves off for the money shot.

Similary, we all like to see hands-free ejaculations, something which might be accompanied by trembling as well. So, no, trembling in that situation is probably what guarantees that you have totally given in to the orgasm. It leaves you vulnerable, I guess, but if you were comfortable enough to let yourself go that way, then it should have been enjoyed by both you and your partner.

On another note, some people laugh when they orgasm, which is their way of dealing with the fact that they either can't believe it, or that they are happy, or trying to hide some form of shame. But there is nothing to feel ashamed about. This is what (gay) sex is about: Sharing.

[LONDONER]

For what my penny's worth is actually worth I'd say that if you enjoyed it, get together again soon and see if you can repeat it. Sounded fun!

[Gemini]

If you enjoyed it ... and it sounds like you did ... then, yeah, what could be wrong with that? Sounds totally hot to me. That's kind of the idea, right? To get beyond ordinary self-control.

As another point, I suggest you not be afraid to discuss things with your sexual partner... ask questions or whatever. I know it can be awkward at first but, honestly, the more open you are about what you like and don't, the more you are able to communicate that, the more you learn from others what they like and don't, etc., the more fulfilling your sex life will be.

Yeah. I mean, people have no problem getting physically naked in front of one another. No problem physically touching one another in intimate ways in intimate places. But then you put your clothes back on, and it's awkward and embarrassing to talk about what you just did? It's OK for me to have your dick in my mouth and my fingers up your ass, but not OK to talk about it later, ask if you liked everything I did or not, ask if there's anything I could have done to make it better for you? I've had guys get really flustered over that. Or else think it was "dirty talk" and I wanted to go again.

IDK, seems kind of fucked up to me.

[princealbertofb]

Hangups, [MENTION=23954]Gemini[/MENTION], personal hangups, and maybe a bit of guilt. Once your dick is no longer guiding your thinking (ie after sex) the head and heart start doing strange things to us.

[Gemini]

Getting back to the original question, I love it when a guy just comes undone and starts trembling and stuff. What a rush! I love it when it happens to me, too. It would be beyond amazing to be with a guy and have it happen to both of us!

[LJay]

Well, [MENTION=23954]Gemini[/MENTION], I have found it very helpful to always carry a few copies of my 27-point After Sex Evaluation Survey with me at all times. Along with a complimentaary Bic pen and a self-addressed stamped envelope it makes it a simple matter for any gentleman of the moment to communicae his feelings and desires. Of course, I don't hand these to every single one of my encounters. I had 20,000 of them printed and have 8,000 left, so you can see I am quite particular. I find that making careful choices is important.

[Gemini]

Well, [MENTION=23954]Gemini[/MENTION], I have found it very helpful to always carry a few copies of my 27-point After Sex Evaluation Survey with me at all times. Along with a complimentaary Bic pen and a self-addressed stamped envelope it makes it a simple matter for any gentleman of the moment to communicae his feelings and desires. Of course, I don't hand these to every single one of my encounters. I had 20,000 of them printed and have 8,000 left, so you can see I am quite particular. I find that making careful choices is important.

Lol great idea! Of course, I'm a year or two younger than you, so it will take a while for me to get up to speed with my numbers.

[TwisttheLeaf]

I have always considered it one hell of a compliment, and an accomplishment, when I make my bed partner tremble. Definitely a good thing, IMO.

[NewToThis]

Thats kinda hot... And your shy as well? Watch your back man i might just eat you up...

Haha!! Is that a good eat me up or a bad eat me up? Lol!