Is this normal and general suff

[Doc]

[MENTION=22821]NativeSon[/MENTION] Oh my!

[drobs]

Viagra / Cialis - Cock Ring, shaving your nether regions...
Maybe do some reading. When I 1st came out (was outed). I bought some books on the subject - Joy of Gay Sex, etc.

I'm sure some of our members here could recommend some reading for you.

[deephiance]

Ok so I started having sexual relationships with men in late 2008, from then until last month I would never admit to myself that I was actually gay. Now that Im accepting my sexuality some wierd stuff is happening to me. I lost my sex drive and my appetite over the last two weeks and Ive been openly looking at other men. Is it normal, is it just stress?

I wouldn't worry about it too much. Yes it could have something to do with stress, but it could also have something to do with seasonal changes, but more probably hormones or whatever.

Sex drive will never be understood, but there are definite phases where you couldn't be bothered with it or you could want to fuck a rattle snake with a festy arse...but only if you held it's head.

[Doc]

[MENTION=14205]drobs[/MENTION] Who outed you? And I dont need viagra, Im a fucking he-man

[Doc]

Ok so now I have a new problem. After chatting with and PMing with some of you guys, Ive pretty much realized that Im 99% gay and that a woman wont satisfy my needs and it would be unfair to her to waste her time. Thanks for that guys.

My new issue is Im trying to tell people that Im gay, just random people to get used to openly admitting it and I just cant do it. I tried to tell the UPS guy while we were having a conversation about women, I tried telling a guy at the candle store I just cant do it. I wont tell my family those people suck anyway so I couldnt care less. Ive been talking about alot of gay topics with my best friend and I think he's starting to figure it out so thats good. But a gay man just broke his little sisters heart so Im not sure if he is happy with the gays right now. BTW thanks for talking me out of using a girl after seeing the damage it can do first hand I cant believe I even considered it.

[TwisttheLeaf]

I'm not sure why you feel the need to announce it? Just live your life as you choose, date and fuck who you choose, and let others draw their own conclusions. Some will ask, others won't. There's no reason to go around shouting it from the rooftops.

[deephiance]

Ok so now I have a new problem. After chatting with and PMing with some of you guys, Ive pretty much realized that Im 99% gay and that a woman wont satisfy my needs and it would be unfair to her to waste her time. Thanks for that guys.

My new issue is Im trying to tell people that Im gay, just random people to get used to openly admitting it and I just cant do it. I tried to tell the UPS guy while we were having a conversation about women, I tried telling a guy at the candle store I just cant do it. I wont tell my family those people suck anyway so I couldnt care less. Ive been talking about alot of gay topics with my best friend and I think he's starting to figure it out so thats good. But a gay man just broke his little sisters heart so Im not sure if he is happy with the gays right now. BTW thanks for talking me out of using a girl after seeing the damage it can do first hand I cant believe I even considered it.

I like to think that it's not what is between your legs that make you the man, it is what is between the ears.

Technically I have never come out, I was asked about 16 years ago if I was gay and I said yes...the hint was I was spending a lot of time with a guy...kind of a rebound thing after my on/off partner of 13 years passed.

I know it is probably liberating to come out, but it is also liberating being a good person

[Cridders88]

Ok so now I have a new problem. After chatting with and PMing with some of you guys, Ive pretty much realized that Im 99% gay and that a woman wont satisfy my needs and it would be unfair to her to waste her time. Thanks for that guys.

My new issue is Im trying to tell people that Im gay, just random people to get used to openly admitting it and I just cant do it. I tried to tell the UPS guy while we were having a conversation about women, I tried telling a guy at the candle store I just cant do it. I wont tell my family those people suck anyway so I couldnt care less. Ive been talking about alot of gay topics with my best friend and I think he's starting to figure it out so thats good. But a gay man just broke his little sisters heart so Im not sure if he is happy with the gays right now. BTW thanks for talking me out of using a girl after seeing the damage it can do first hand I cant believe I even considered it.

It'll take time. You're only just getting to the point of admitting it to yourself, and perhaps accepting yourself. It took a long time for me to get to the stage of admitting it and accepting it myself to being able to admit it to other people and be comfortable being open about it. I'm sure you will get there, and only you will know when you are ready.

I am glad you have come to the realisation that using a girl to hide your sexuality would've only caused pain for her, and to be honest, you as well. Sorry if I came across harsh when I last interacted with you, but the idea of you doing what you were suggesting evoked a strong reaction from me, I guess it's something I feel quite strongly about. But yeah, happy for you that you aren't going down that dark route anymore man

[Darius]

So, how is you wiener working these days?

[Doc]

It works fine thanks for the concern [MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION]. [MENTION=20738]TwisttheLeaf[/MENTION] [MENTION=24118]deephiance[/MENTION] I guess I just figured you were either in or out of the closet. I dont need to say Im gay but I dont need to hide it, that makes sense. I was under the impression that I should hoist the flag and fire a few volleys to announce it, I guess if the see me with a man they will know.
[MENTION=22727]Cridders88[/MENTION] Its hard for me not to try to partner up with her though, seeing her sad as she is. she's such a nice girl and I dont want her to go alone to all the Christmas parties. Maybe I can friend date her, I am her big brothers best friend.