03-21-2017, 06:27 PM
(Edited 03-21-2017, 06:43 PM by meridannight.)
I've seen a few members feel concern about this topic lately, so I thought I'd make a separate thread about it (and my reply on another thread ended up becoming too long to post there). I know [MENTION=13183]seeking[/MENTION] asked about it, and [MENTION=24256]RomanticMan[/MENTION] also has his concerns about this particular subject.
This is about how to clean the anal area, for receptive anal sex or rimming, and some of the physiological realities you should be aware of. If I've left something important out, feel free to add it here.
No, you don't usually have to do that. That could make matters worse, in fact. Soap will irritate the delicate lining of the anus, so that's not a good idea to use it extensively. But a soapy finger up there in the vicinity of the sphincter once or twice while you're in the shower will probably not cause you any considerable harm, if you want that extra 'freshness'.
If you're thinking about pumping water up there (whether an actual enema/douche or something more modest), the problem with that is -- that some of the residual water can stay in there and then make an exit during intercourse. That includes the possibility that if it goes in too deep it can liquefy some of the stuff that's already in there -- well, you get the picture.
The part of the rectum where his penis will be is actually mostly clean. It's the lower part of the rectum and the waste matter doesn't descend there till near when it's time for it to be voided. Most of the 'leftover' particulate matter from a recent voiding gets reabsorbed by the body (if you weren't aware of this, then know that fecal matter is not only waste matter, there are nutrients in there that your body will continue to absorb until it's been voided). So, actually, the lower part of the rectum kind of keeps itself clean. I'm not saying it'll ever be 100% squeaky clean but mostly you don't have to worry about it. It would only be dirty if you've just gone to the bathroom and from there go straight to anal sex. There needs to be a decent interval of time (a couple of hours at least, in my opinion) between those two events.
So, just make sure you've gone to the bathroom if you're 'overdue', but not to go immediately before having sex. Take a shower and clean the area of your ass with shower gel/soap, and by the time your partner's tongue is in there, it will taste clean and smell nice. You can even mix things up by using different shower gels at different times, so that your partner will smell a slightly different scent at times.
You can, of course, go through all the enemas, anal douching, etc if that's really what you want. But I've found from experience that it's really not necessary under most circumstances.
One last very important thing -- your diet will also determine just how ''messy'' you will be in that area. Food with high fiber content will make your waste matter more solid, and consequently a bit better to deal with when having anal sex. There's tons of info on it on the internet, just look it up. I might add some more on this later on -- I'm kind of getting to be in a hurry right now, so will have to cut it off.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by it ''breathing'' during the rimming session though. Are you afraid your partner is gonna fart in your face?
This is about how to clean the anal area, for receptive anal sex or rimming, and some of the physiological realities you should be aware of. If I've left something important out, feel free to add it here.
seeking Wrote:Unrelated question (to all): When you wash your ass, do you also wash the interior of your ass ?
Besides, I can imagine it will "breath" during the rimming session and expose the interior part. Hence my question. Do you clean the inside as well? How on earth do you do that??
No, you don't usually have to do that. That could make matters worse, in fact. Soap will irritate the delicate lining of the anus, so that's not a good idea to use it extensively. But a soapy finger up there in the vicinity of the sphincter once or twice while you're in the shower will probably not cause you any considerable harm, if you want that extra 'freshness'.
If you're thinking about pumping water up there (whether an actual enema/douche or something more modest), the problem with that is -- that some of the residual water can stay in there and then make an exit during intercourse. That includes the possibility that if it goes in too deep it can liquefy some of the stuff that's already in there -- well, you get the picture.
The part of the rectum where his penis will be is actually mostly clean. It's the lower part of the rectum and the waste matter doesn't descend there till near when it's time for it to be voided. Most of the 'leftover' particulate matter from a recent voiding gets reabsorbed by the body (if you weren't aware of this, then know that fecal matter is not only waste matter, there are nutrients in there that your body will continue to absorb until it's been voided). So, actually, the lower part of the rectum kind of keeps itself clean. I'm not saying it'll ever be 100% squeaky clean but mostly you don't have to worry about it. It would only be dirty if you've just gone to the bathroom and from there go straight to anal sex. There needs to be a decent interval of time (a couple of hours at least, in my opinion) between those two events.
So, just make sure you've gone to the bathroom if you're 'overdue', but not to go immediately before having sex. Take a shower and clean the area of your ass with shower gel/soap, and by the time your partner's tongue is in there, it will taste clean and smell nice. You can even mix things up by using different shower gels at different times, so that your partner will smell a slightly different scent at times.
You can, of course, go through all the enemas, anal douching, etc if that's really what you want. But I've found from experience that it's really not necessary under most circumstances.
One last very important thing -- your diet will also determine just how ''messy'' you will be in that area. Food with high fiber content will make your waste matter more solid, and consequently a bit better to deal with when having anal sex. There's tons of info on it on the internet, just look it up. I might add some more on this later on -- I'm kind of getting to be in a hurry right now, so will have to cut it off.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by it ''breathing'' during the rimming session though. Are you afraid your partner is gonna fart in your face?
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