Having sex when it is hot advise please ?

[Josuepek]

Hi guys

My boyfriend love having sex when the house is really hot it turn him on more but me I don't like it because it is sticky and sweaty please can you advise how do I tell him that I don't like it without upsetting him ?

[IanSaysHi]

Tell him the sweaty conditions are more likely to produce a lovely fungal outbreak:
https://www.buzzfeed.com/carolinekee/ski....ehvRkeEyR

...Or just talk to him. If he knows you're not enjoying things in the bedroom then hopefully he'll accept it. Be willing to look at other things you can both enjoy.

I've seen a couple of posts from people lately with a common theme "my boyfriend wants to do this but I don't and I'm worried it'll upset him/he'll look elsewhere" - why should his needs come first and yours second? When he said he likes it that way, was your first thought to leave him or shout at him, or was it about how you could work things out? Why should he be any different when you tell him how you like it in the bedroom? Saying no to something is just as relevant as saying yes. You have just as much right to input in the bedroom as he does. It's all about compromise people!

[LONDONER]

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It's too darn hot
It's too darn hot
I'd like to sup with my baby tonight
Refill the cup with my baby tonight
I'd like to sup with my baby tonight
Refill the cup with my baby tonight
But I ain't up to my baby tonight
'Cause it's too darn hot

It's too darn hot
It's too darn hot
I'd like to coo with my baby tonight
And pitch the woo with my baby tonight
I'd like to coo with my baby tonight
And pitch the woo with my baby tonight
But brother, you fight my baby tonight
'Cause it's too darn hot

According to the Kinsey Report, ev'ry average man you know
Much prefers his lovey-dovey to court
When the temperature is low
But when the thermometer goes 'way up
And the weather is sizzling hot
Mister, pants for romance is not

'Cause it's too, too, too darn hot
It's too darn hot
It's too, too darn hot




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[LJay]

You could suggest a Wesson Oil party as an alternative.

[Cowboy]

I say this, If you dont enjoy hot sex, dont have sex in Mississippi. its super sticky down here most of the time.

[Camfer]

I think you might phrase it something like this: "Hey boyfriend, I know you totally love having hot sweaty sex and I am totally game to give you what you want. I actually prefer to have sex like __________________ so let's do it like _____________ sometimes too. That way we both get what turns us on the most brings us closer together in both domestic and carnal bliss, love you babe, you okay with all that?"

[Camfer]

I say this, If you dont enjoy hot sex, dont have sex in Mississippi. its super sticky down here most of the time.

I used to spend weeks in the summer at my grandmother's house in Louisiana. The house was built in the 1800s and had no air conditioning. There were fans to stir the hot sticky air around. When the house got too hot you could sit on the porch swing on the screened in porch. No wonder people talk slowly down there!

[Josuepek]

Thanks for the advise but the things is I don't enjoy sex when it is so hot I love when the temperature is acceptable but I don't want him to get upset or he might think that I don't want him anymore

[IanSaysHi]

Thanks for the advise but the things is I don't enjoy sex when it is so hot I love when the temperature is acceptable but I don't want him to get upset or he might think that I don't want him anymore

Well unfortunately if you're not willing to try any advice then you'll just have to carry on as things are... good luck.

[Cowboy]

Just tell him you prefer to have sex when its cold, real cold. After a few sessions of eskimo sex, offer him a compromise to only have sex in rooms with a temperature of 75 degrees. Meet him in the middle.