Having sex when it is hot advise please ?

[Cridders88]

Thanks for the advise but the things is I don't enjoy sex when it is so hot I love when the temperature is acceptable but I don't want him to get upset or he might think that I don't want him anymore

If you don't enjoy it, then TELL HIM. If he loves you, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, or doesn't try to meet a compromise, then he doesn't love you.

Either way, the notion of putting up with something you don't enjoy because you are afraid of his reaction is ridiculous.

[Darius]

Hot, sweaty sex when your bellies are slippery against each other can be great (as long as you don't slide off) , not to mention that a sweaty cock tastes great, too....but it's like everything else, variety is nice. This is where two people compromise.

One other thing, you can always shower together afterwards. There ain't no way I'm going to sleep covered in sweat and cum and sticking together all night long.

[meridannight]

I don't like it because it is sticky and sweaty

Under what circumstances exactly is sex not sticky and sweaty? You're not doing it right if it's not sticky and sweaty.

[TwisttheLeaf]

Time to start fucking in the shower? I used to do this back when I was single and occasionally screwed chicks, because I didn't like the "girl juice" mess. Also worked when my fwb guy started smelling funny (turns out he started doing meth)... after I realized that it wasn't temporary and what the cause was, he ended up being history. Still, it worked for the short time the whole smell thing was an issue.

[princealbertofb]

How about a hot shower sex session? It's hot, it's wet, not too sweaty but at least it'll clean him up the way you'd like him to be.... don't you both get what you want out of it?

[princealbertofb]

Under what circumstances exactly is sex not sticky and sweaty? You're not doing it right if it's not sticky and sweaty.

[MENTION=21405]meridannight[/MENTION] has a point. But does it have to be sticky and sweaty and smelly? Your thoughts, Meridannight.

[princealbertofb]

Just tell him you prefer to have sex when its cold, real cold. After a few sessions of eskimo sex, offer him a compromise to only have sex in rooms with a temperature of 75 degrees. Meet him in the middle.

Now by our standards, 75° would be scorching, ... almost.



Oh, you mean Fahrenheit???

[Darius]

[MENTION=21405]meridannight[/MENTION] has a point. But does it have to be sticky and sweaty and smelly? Your thoughts, Meridannight.

I know you are not asking me, but I'll answer anyway. I can think of lots of ways that sex is not sticky, sweaty or smelly. Unless the only kind of sex you have is the gymnastic type, It is not necessarily messy. If you cum into someone's mouth or a condom and the sex is slow and easily, there is no reason to be all sweaty if temperatures in the room are normal.
Lube is probably the messiest part of sex. An enthusiastic solo sex could be more sweaty and sticky, especially depending where you shoot.

[princealbertofb]

I know you are not asking me, but I'll answer anyway. I can think of lots of ways that sex is not sticky, sweaty or smelly. Unless the only kind of sex you have is the gymnastic type, It is not necessarily messy. If you cum into someone's mouth or a condom and the sex is slow and easily, there is no reason to be all sweaty if temperatures in the room are normal.
Lube is probably the messiest part of sex. An enthusiastic solo sex could be more sweaty and sticky, especially depending where you shoot.

Going from what the original poster has said in other threads, I was going to go with Meridannight's idea that it was sweaty and sticky... so far, so good, I only wanted to query the 'smelly' bit... There again, maybe for some it will be. I acknowledge all of what you've pointed out too, [MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION], and we have to admit that we have probably all tried to keep it as tidy as possible so as not to leave any too obvious traces lying around (if others, or parents or siblings also live close by).

[meridannight]

[MENTION=21405]meridannight[/MENTION] has a point. But does it have to be sticky and sweaty and smelly? Your thoughts, Meridannight.

Sticky and sweaty does not necessarily mean 'smelly' sex. Every man sweats at least lightly during sex, whether it's more or less intense. Unless he hasn't showered in days he's not gonna smell bad. It's a man's own scent and it's good. It's also good to feel his body stick to yours.

My point is, there's nothing bad about that. I notice some people have a fear when things aren't 100% squeaky clean. I think that's a sad way to go about it, and it's missing out on a lot of fun that comes with sex. It's not a realistic approach either.