Hi guys
How do you feel if after 4 years of relationship your partner still requires you to wear condom during sex ?
What will you do ?
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I wouldnt stop using condom till I see my and my partner's test result.
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How would I feel? I'd feel like we both are smart men who love each other and want to look out for each other's safety.
I'm sorry, but safe sex doesn't have a time limit.
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respect his wishes...you're putting your dick up a bacteria and germ factory, wouldn't you like to know that you weren't doing to get an dick infection if you break the skin on your dick?
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Good but the things is even though he saw my test result he still want to use condom because he want always safe sex between us whereas I trust him and I don't sleep around what can I do ?
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You are right but at the same time it good to feel his skin especially after 4 years trust relationship
What can I do
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As per your he-wants-sweaty-sex-I-don't thread - talk to your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel. See the results and go from there.
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I wouldn't get it, frankly. If you are in a monogamous relationship, and neither has any STDs from previous partners, I don't see a reason to still wear a condom after that much time.
Sex without a condom is always much better than with it.
You only need to wear it with partners you don't trust, or if you're a hypochondriac. I don't get some people's overt concern with it, honestly. Everything within reason.
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You accept his choice? This is a decision about one's personal health. It's not something you pressure someone into because you want it to feel "skin on skin" or whatever.
Hell, for all you know he has a once-a-month nookie session with a telephone pole and is trying to protect you.
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