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Asking for what I like - afraid to
#1
I'm in a Ltr with a man and for 9 years sex is still good. We are older mid-50s and I as the top know how to please him. Maybe I'm the only top who likes this s but I would love for him to play with my butt - but even at my age I'm afraid to ask. id even like to try to be in him while someone was in me.

The list continues-doesn't matter what they are - I'm afraid he will say no and also leave.

Do I find someone else?

That's not cool

I know the answer is that he can't read my mind and I need to tell him but sissy me is afraid

Thanks for listening
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#2
Even if he doesn't like it, is there anything makes you feel he will leave you because you just ask?
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#3
after 9 years he is not about to leave because you make suggestions -and after 9 years he is not just with you for sex - your in a relationship and its all about give and take , You need to talk to your partner first because he obviously densest know what you may need sex wise too - let him know
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