Done it -ish

[Jake]

jake you didnt even give her a chance, just because you thought her name was neddy( shes the complete opposite from a ned though) you immedietly judged and shes really the soundest person i have ever met

She was also very bland.

Not much conversation from her.

Didn't really get my sarcasm either.

:mad:

[Robertson]

I Am Comeing Out!
Tis all part of my plan, im telling all my close friends by the end of the week, and i shall see what the general reaction is before i go public with it or wheither or not i should tell my mother, plus i dont really want to be living th elie through my exams so nows the perfect time, and i found out theres like 5 gays in my year and 6th year anyway so if they can do it so can i , i sahll post to tell you the reaction

[Tush]

im not gonna tell you what you SHOULD do, but this is what i did/am doing ...

my closet friends know im into boys, there was a bit of unease at first but after a week it wasnt even an issue. actually it just gave the girls something else to tease me about.

i still havent told any of my family because i dont think its really anything that they need to be told about. my brother knows cos i share a room with him and hes woken up to find a topless guy in my bed a couple of times... oops! my bad!

if anyone asks then i wouldnt deny it, but i just dont want to make a big announcement about something that has the potential to cause unnecessary (sp) problems.

i know this wouldnt be the ideal situation for everyone but its working alright for me ... so far.

just do what you think is best, youre the only one in the position to decide.
i hope this helped.

[marshlander]

Good luck! Five out gays in your school already ... how times are changing

[Robertson]

Wow, mandy did not take it well, like atall, she was all questions and depressed and disgusted, and she couldnt understand why i didnt tell her when we went out, but its not the kind of thing you talk about over soup and now im upset that shes upset about me being me? Man i need a hug

[fjp999]

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I am sure it wasnt easy at all but time usually heals everything

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[needspeak]

it's hard for me to understand such text, it's not that structured, sorry, if i haven't caught some of the ideas.

As I've understood - you've mentioned a lot of women names and problem is how to come out without breaking so sweet girls hearts... is this correct?

Maybe I'm not that experienced, but in my life i had some girls, who felt in love with me. The only advise - just break their hearts and crush their minds as soon as possible. Less hopes and time - less harm. Do not let your "i must be good and positive hero" thoughts make you behave the way you really don't want to. You are making problems not only for yourself but for the girl too.