Dating a great guy and keep current sex buddies?

[Zurdoknoc]

This is a subject where there has to be a clear understanding from both sides of what is expected.

There are many couples who can have successful open relationships. I agree that this is acceptable, as log as both sides agree to it.

You've said in your post that you both believe in monogamy, but did you agree to a start condition? I didn't say "date" because some couples may be monogamous almost immediately, and others could be open for years. You both need to discuss how you'll decide to become monogamous, and then stick to it.

Thanks for your reply. I never said we want open relationships or agree to it. We both are DATING and getting to know each other but we do not talk about the past sex buddies at all. Why should we anyway? We have talked about what we want end expect when in a boyfriends relationship which is monogamy and we agree. As far as now we are NOT boyfriends but I do have sex buddies from the past. Dating doesn’t mean aI am taken. Having a boyfriend means a commitment to him.