I Am Super Pissed, To Say The Least

[Robertson]

i was speaking to a certain person tonight who shall remain nameless and he is bi as well ( we will call him x) and to be quite frank he could not be more narrow minded if he tried and it has really really annoyed me, X met a girl on a chat room and is going to meet her and he told me that if it works out with her he is going to see a specialist and turning straight and he would have to block and delete me and we could never meet, all this was based on 1 random girl that he has never met and franky it frightens me that he has made this decision even though he has had male experiances as well and obviously likes guys as well or he wouldnt have been talking to me, anyway i was just really disguisted about the way he seembed to be small minded and its just the way he goes im getting professional help as if its some sort of cancer he has, and the urges that he has he wanst rid of, fair enough but why would he have the urges if he wasnt for this and then he goes if we meet what would ahve happend and i replyed and he was like well thats gay though and i was like yes, but then if uyou do things with a girl its straght so when its both toghether its bi and its not a bad thing and uuurgh i just needed to rant because it has, its annoyed me to be frankly and ino it probably has nothing to do with me because its just a randomer i had met on the site but hes grown on me a would regard him as a pal and i just feel hes making hastey decisions and as well the way he seems tho think if your bi your gay, because he said to me i want a life, i was like how is bi not a life and he replyed with how is it:S and that he wants children ect, but with being bi that doesnt stop you :S i fail to see his point completly

and he has just told me there is an anti-gay drug :|:|

and he told me i cant live with it, its not a life is it........ i really really needed that rant

and he just quoted somehting >
We encourage you to Learn more specifics about homosexuality from your doctor- The more you know about the illness itself, the more you can do to manage and recover from it. and then he said it is an illness:| so i told him he made me sick and blocked him

[Robertson]

after the u make me sick comment he texted me saying

x: y its on a website duhh
me:and... is it fuck an illness uv really upset me waii that dont bother textin back
x:ok fine fuck off, why have i upset you. am looking for a cure for me
me:cure what your not ill, your making it out to be a cancer or sumthin

[fjp999]

[COLOR="Purple"]Sorry to hear that you met a mess of a human.

I guess the only good thing to come of it is that he is out of your life.[/COLOR]

[Mark]

Okay okay I can sympathise with the 'Bi is not a life' - Only because I know a few Bi people that feel trapped in being Bi.. Quite scared of what sexuality they are, whether they are gay or straight - What if they came out as liking guys but then actually don't? And all those general fears which are completely understandable. I guess being Bi is always on the middle ground and you can't commit to one or the other.

But as for the cure comments - cutting you out of his life and comments like that it is pretty harsh and really shouldn't have been said - but again if he does want to go down the straight path then maybe cutting you and other guys out of his life is something he has to do?

I mean if I want to move on with a part of my life I do cut people out which is really harsh and more than likely not needed but its my way of progressing. I simply can't move on otherwise.

But once again the way he treated you is not on - Don't let him get too you that much Im sure you have people that treat you right in your life! x

[albabonzai]

Oh i was unsure that i was ill, id better go to the doctors. #



arghhh.........................

[Robertson]

okay so in the heat of the moment i may have over reacted and misinterprited a few things that was said and were back pals now so its all good and a think he was joos a bit confuzed n shit n he didnt actually say it was an illness a website did or suhin anyway scrap the thread tis all roses in the garden now

[Mark]

... hmm

[marshlander]

Well, that's five minutes of my life I shan't get back!

By the way, it is not an illness, so there is no need for a cure, but there are many snake-oil merchants out there. Beware.

[Jake]

I like people like this, makes me know i'm clever

[fjp999]

I like people like this, makes me know i'm clever

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