HI. I am new user to this forum

[BiGay40]

HI i am new here. I dunno where to start. i am looking for a friendship, and also any kind of fun. 
Being alone for quite sometime. I need someone that can share feelings . 

Why i dun look for females? yes Females mentality very themselves, as guys can really share secrets together. 

And Guys, can really know how to wear.. for example Crossdresser... guys can be as beautiful as gals....

I would like to make friends here.

[ChadCoxRox]

Hi.
The more you read and reply here the more you'll garner interaction toward your objective. This place is very slow but there is an enduring and endearing cast of characters with much to give.
Read and reply. I'll be watching for your thoughts.

[BiGay40]

Hi.
The more you read and reply here the more you'll garner interaction toward your objective. This place is very slow but there is an enduring and endearing cast of characters with much to give.
Read and reply. I'll be watching for your thoughts.

Hi, I know this chat forum is very slow. it does not matter to me.. i am looking for someone to chat and be friends with. due to quite many sensitive subjects or chat text.. it is very hard for me to talk anything anywhere..

I feel guys are better to talk to compare to females. the feeling is totally different. for example, guy touching a guy compared to touching a female, for a female, U touch her she will feel uncomfortable, if i touch a guy, it is a friendly gesture. .

Frankly speaking, i am very friendly to anyone who know that one will be my best buddy, that really understand guys issues. Females dun understand guys issues and needs. totally different mentality . 

I had a Bi guy friend, we oral together, it was exciting and fun. eat each other cum. this was the first time i tasted a guy penis and cum, all these years since born.. totally new experience.. I do loved it alot. 
But the relationship ended very soon,, because he is married and want to stay as just oral and straight family.

I feel boring soon after twice oral. and that's it.. end of relationship. 

Being asking myself , what is true love.. it seems that there is no true love in this world, it is all a dream. Sad to sound like that, as what i understand that all is just a sci-fiction dream of true love.

So now i am living as a lonely guy , filled myself with hobbies that i can make myself happy and contented.

Looking forward to anyone in the forum that share some real feelings, that is a start.

[ChadCoxRox]

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I feel boring soon after twice oral. and that's it.. end of relationship. 

Being asking myself , what is true love.. it seems that there is no true love in this world, it is all a dream. Sad to sound like that, as what i understand that all is just a sci-fiction dream of true love.

So now i am living as a lonely guy , filled myself with hobbies that i can make myself happy and contented.

Looking forward to anyone in the forum that share some real feelings, that is a start.
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I'd expect ANY person already in a traditional, and especially hetero, familial relationship to be "off limits" beyond play, and even that would be beyond my desire. Yet it does happen and I'd be clear in my own thinking that any play would be ONLY that without complicating with internal unmet needs and desires. Of course I learned to think and feel this way over time and made many mistakes along the way from which to learn. The titillation of play on the one hand and the passion for love on the other can be a toxic brew for sure.

For me, the good news is that I eventually had success with turning down and avoiding the brew. A few things that helped were directing my energies into creative pursuits and "giving" activities with the goal of being the kind of person I wanted to attract for myself and sharing sincere gestures of comfort to others who suffer.

Hobbies can be crafted toward truly positive growth for one's self and expectations and they can include forms of service rather than material goods toward a goal of giving, which always helps develop the sense of becoming desirable in and of the self and hopefully closer to finding more opportunities for healthy friendships. I'm not saying it is easy. But a strategic mindset and planning will certainly pay off more than repetitive lamenting.

I hope you continue to set a course toward inner happiness one little second at a time and not have to think or feel like you are starting all over again and again. One thing is given, communication and connection with others gives much stronger results than isolation and avoidance.