love sucks!

[Luke14009]

ok other people probly hav bigger problems den me but bear with me,ok i tink i hav way too high standards in guys like id only evr fancy blonde muscley guys dat are my age and dat have a boyish cute lookin face (like maxxie from Skins) but the thing is dat i dnt feel anything toward any other guys dat dont look like dat,wen i do meet guys dat dont look like dat i have a definite feeling dat it isnt goin to last wit him so wots d point trying with him? anyone have any help wit dis kind of problem?:confused:

[marshlander]

Luke, any chance you could write in standard English, please? We have a lot of members who don't speak English as a first language on here (and as for me, I'm just far too old to understand textese )? Cheers.

If I've understood your question I would suggest get out more, make lots of friends and don't worry about finding a boyfriend. When you are really ready you will probably find each other and, because things usually happen this way, it is unlikely he will look anything like your present fantasy, but he will make you happier than you ever thought possible.

Good luck.

[fjp999]

[COLOR="Purple"]I agree with dat marshy, he dat smarty.

My fav porn star is super sexy but my love is very diff. He dat sexy too but not dat porn star type at all :biggrin:

Try to open dat mind and see where it leads 2 [/COLOR]

[peterinmalaga]

Fck you very much for dat advice, fjp999.

[marshlander]

OMG

[fjp999]

OMG

Dnt you meen OM[COLOR="Red"]FG [/COLOR]

[Kiid]

I think you shouldn't ever settle for second best. I think I have the same problem as you. I like guys not guys who are too sissy or practicely girls.

[peterinmalaga]

Luke, What IS the problem? Is the problem that you can't get the type of guy that you really fancy? Well, if you make very high demands of potential partners, you will just have to wait until you find them and it will obviously take longer. You will also have a lot of one-night stands before you find the right mand for you. I lost count of the number of guys I have had sex with long ago and I have had some absolutely gorgeous men. But I would never have wanted a relationship with some of the really gorgeous ones. Would you feel secure in a relationship with a guy who EVERYONE wants to get between the sheets? You have to sort out your priorities and I suspect that when you have more experience of these things your priorities will change. I have used the quote below before and it says it all for me.

Infatuation is when you think he's as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners. Love is when you realize that he's as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford - but you'll take him anyway.
- Judith Viorst

[fjp999]

Infatuation is when you think he's as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners. Love is when you realize that he's as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford - but you'll take him anyway.
- Judith Viorst

[COLOR="Purple"]OMFG

Fanks for the mornging giggle.

THE BEST WAY TO START A DAY [/COLOR]