What makes you feel gay?

[marshlander]

... A friend sometimes ask me If I´m sure to be gay.... with absolutely no eye for fashion.

Another stereotype bites the dust!

[gregs317]

I'm not really that feminine, maybe a little. I do like fashion and shopping to a certain degree, but I don't act fem. Probably because I grew up and played with my brother and 7-8 male cousins, as a kid - they kept me pretty masculine acting, I think. I come from a really straight edge family. My mom and our extended family wouldn't be especially supportive or understanding of the gay lifestyle. All of the guys in our family our straight and masculine. It's just what I grew up with.

I'm not putting them down - they're all very kind, loving, generous people. They just can't fathom why a man should want to be with another man, and a woman with another woman. Women in my family would think of a feminine-acting guy as kind of a joke, including my mom. She and I had a close relationship, but she probably wouldn't have been happy knowing that I'm gay. Maybe she would have accepted it and learned to cope after a while, but she's deceased now, so I'll never know.

[SrChulo]

Haha... Well let's see. I love some typical "masculine" things... football, fishing, beer, skateboarding, snowboarding, idk... But typical "gay" stuff I do is:

-I admit I do love shopping. Too bad I have no money.
-Dancing.. I SUCK but love it
-Lady GaGa is catchy
-I own cologne, don't wear it during the day though. Someone mentioned CK One- have it. But, to Mr "wears womens perfume," have you tried D&G Light Blue for men?? It's incredible................ my boyfriend wears it and i fall in love every time i smell it.
-I guess I also feel gay when i'm sucking his dick.

[SilentMusician]

the strong urge to have sex with another man? other then that im pretty masculine

[Genersis]

I fall in love with men........thats about it really.........

[Sil]

Interesting question

1.) it sounds cliche, but flowers - I love being given them, and always find myself loitering around the displays in supermarkets and things, they're just nice to have around if you live in a flat/apartment.

2.) Mmmmm...wrestling? lol... seriously though, the fact I get turned-on from horseplay is probably the biggest factor.

3.) just reactions to things - sometimes if I see something very cute, a couple or a pet, I will gasp a little and get all campy for a moment "adorable!"

4.) Liking dicks? this is all getting a little too literal

5.) Fluffy things make me feel very gay... even as a big guy I'm more happy snuggling a huge plush or anything adorably animal-like, it's quite childish

DONE

[colinmackay]

Simply that I enjoy looking at good looking men, I love being in the arms of my boyfriend, and the love I have for him.

I am gay. It is my natural state of being. I can't "feel" any other way.



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[eastofeden]

A friend sometimes ask me If I´m sure to be gay.... with absolutely no eye for fashion.

LOL Fenris..I got asked that when I was bartending in a gay bar from customers that had known me for years...they wanted to know if I was "sure" I was gay LOL 'Tis true...I could give a rats ass about fashion or my hair or what I look like or what you look like for that matter. If I like you...you look great...If I don't like you...you look ugly...simple LOL

How do I know I am gay or feel gay? Easy...I wake up each morning and kiss my lover after I get out from under his arms and legs (not an easy feat...we sleep intertwined).

Also...when I stand in a long line to get Bette Midler tickets:biggrin:

[PrinceMuzic]

Hmmm

1) Shopping: Omigod! I LOVE to shop. My wardrobe is like made up of really bright colours. Lots of oranges, blues, greens. I detest black but I also have an affinity for grey/silver. Shopping is absolutely one of my fave things to do. Don't care if it's online or not. Shopping is shopping.

2) Cologne: I absolutely adore wearing cologne. When I was in Paris I pretty much blew a whole lot of my money at Fragonard because everything smelt so divine but I have to say my favorite was/is Concerto. It's like really sweet and I just imagine innocence and purity when I wear it which is kind of an image I obsess over keeping. I like some more masculine colognes (Boss by Hugo Boss) but the majority of my collection is sweet, innocence with perhaps a hint of sex. LOL.

3) The way I talk: I have a tendency to be hyper-articulate and uber-preppy when I speak. Which is contradictory and abnormal to where I live where everyone speaks broken, improper English.

4) The way I walk: I have a tendency to walk on my tip-toes often. Haha.

5) When I'm with my other gay friends or people who know I'm gay (or bi or whatev. Either way I like boys) and I kinda sorta get excited when I see a hott guy I'm into. This also has to do with the feeling of relief and freedom when you finally come out to people.

The movies/tv shows I have/watch: Legally Blonde 1&2, Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants, Ugly Betty, Gossip Girl, 90210, Hellcats, The Notebook, Mean Girls etc.

The music I listen to: Miley Cyrus, Katy Perry, Ashley Tisdale etc.

And most importantly...drum roll please...THE FACT THAT I LIKE GUYS!!!!!! LOL.

I don't think I'm particularly fem. Although half the things I put hear contradict with that. Hopefully I answered the original question.



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[posterpicture]

Well, today, I suddenly feel so gay. When my housemate is having his friends over for drinking and watching football, I sit in my room and watch Glee.