I like boys now!

[Pablogeebee]

I am practically in the same boat!
As an adult I have''nt so much as kissed a guy
and I''ve been drunk and got macho(not violent)
and spurned a few guys advances(more fool me!).Lol!
I feel very much like the only Bi'' in the village!
I''m pretty hopeless and don''t know any ga'/bi guys!
I''ve just had it with girls!!

[Dark Angel]

Hey, welcomes to the site.

[J A Y]

Thanks for the welcomes!
Pablo: Yeah its tough, I dunno what to do about it. I'm just absolutely stuck. Right now I feel like I'm not gonna be in a position to meet guys any time in the near future. And I guess I kinda wanna know somethin more about my sexuality. Its like, I've been workin on the idea of being with a girl for so long... That feels almost wasted now. It's like... Now what? lol

[marshlander]

... That feels almost wasted now. It's like... Now what? lol

Let's go with a cliché - Today is the first day of the rest of your life ...?

[J A Y]

That would be nice... but I guess when you're not out, its hard to think that way, when I know I'll still be charading tomorrow lol!

[fredv3b]

If you follow that logical nothing can happen until you come out and unless you can managed to take such a great leap all at once, nothing can happen at all. Much better to think in small steps, what can you do tomorrow that might bring you a little closer to meeting a nice guy or being out?

[Pablogeebee]

Thanks for the welcomes!
Pablo: Yeah its tough, I dunno what to do about it. I'm just absolutely stuck. Right now I feel like I'm not gonna be in a position to meet guys any time in the near future. And I guess I kinda wanna know somethin more about my sexuality. Its like, I've been workin on the idea of being with a girl for so long... That feels almost wasted now. It's like... Now what? lol

Jay; Me too! I don''t know where to start! Also if I do find out how I could meet guys similar to me,I''d be too shy :redface: to approach them.
I''m fussy too which narrows my choices down a lot.lol !
I guess I''m gonna have to get out and find out about stuff!
I already decided I aint going to pretend I am something I''m not anymore.I really have wasted too much time not being me.
I picture myself with a guy and feel okay about it,which is a new and good feeling for me . The actuality of being with a guy is something else.
I''m like a little virgin again(with guys) and I aint in a rush for sex.
I''d love to meet someone exactly like me;Everything is new to him and we could get to know stuff together.
Chances of that occurring are slim,I guess! Also he''s gotta be fit and cute!Tee,he!

[marshlander]

... I already decided I aint going to pretend I am something I''m not anymore.I really have wasted too much time not being me ...

Welcome to the rest of your life.

[princealbertofb]

Jay; Me too! I don''t know where to start! Also if I do find out how I could meet guys similar to me,I''d be too shy :redface: to approach them.
I''m fussy too which narrows my choices down a lot.lol !
I guess I''m gonna have to get out and find out about stuff!
I already decided I aint going to pretend I am something I''m not anymore.I really have wasted too much time not being me.
I picture myself with a guy and feel okay about it,which is a new and good feeling for me . The actuality of being with a guy is something else.
I''m like a little virgin again(with guys) and I aint in a rush for sex.
I''d love to meet someone exactly like me;Everything is new to him and we could get to know stuff together.
Chances of that occurring are slim,I guess! Also he''s gotta be fit and cute!Tee,he!

Stick around Pablo, you might just meet (like Marsh and me) the right person, or A right person who isn't far from you, online... It happens, believe me. :biggrin:

[Pablogeebee]

Stick around Pablo, you might just meet (like Marsh and me) the right person, or A right person who isn't far from you, online... It happens, believe me. :biggrin:

Well I intend to stick around.It would be great to find the right person,not far from me.I know there are guys out there but as I said I am such a wimp
when it comes to approaching guys.
Unless I wear a big badge saying;hya guys I'm available to offers!
I can''t see things changing.
I will have to make an effort to find out more about stuff,coz I aint wearing no bleedin big badgemile: lol!Sigh!