Gay teens coming out earlier to peers and family

[zeon]

Hi All,
I realised i was "different" at the age of 11.. I didnt know i was gay until i was 14 as at 11 all gay ment was stupid as a slang term.. Well as soon as i left school i confided in my brother to tell him im gay and fair play he didint tell no one about me which was nice of him then one christmas night over monopoly (when i was 17) my brother started behaving like a twat and going rent boi.. Everytime i landed on his property so as time went on i could feel pressure inside and then eventually blew my top and went ok ok so fucking what??? Yea your dying to tell mum and everyone that your brother is a fucking faggot and takes it up the shitter yeah now that mum knows u gonna stop this shit?..
Well mums jaw dropped and i stormed off and my brother was downstairs shouting run faggot boi run and the next thing i know his got a split nose where mum smacked him one.. She stood up and said whether his gay or not his your brother your flesh and your blood.. My brother tried to disown me but mum said that we both got same mum and dad so no matter what whether he likes it or not theres a gay man in his family..
Well my brother kept trying to get reactions out of people and it wasnt working.. My family were sticking by my side.. Well my nan keeps insisting that im not gay so a few times shes said something very nasty to me so to offend her ive filled her INBOX on yahoo mail with lots and lots and lots of gay porn and put YOUR GRANDSON IS A FAGGOT GET OVA IT!..

Of course i wouldnt recommend that action to be taken but its a way to make people stop judging ya..

Coming out to someone is hard but my advice is tell the family first as they are the closest then once a few people know tell more and more and more and u get more confident in yourself and whatnot else

Kindest regards

zeon x

[fjp999]

Zeon, JUST LOVE YOUR STORY

[zeon]

Zeon, JUST LOVE YOUR STORY

hehe thank you.. It showed me in the long run to defend who i am i aint gonna be a careful closet just a loud n proud poof

kindest regards

zeon x

[Bii Lad]

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[fjp999]

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Did ya get the help you were looking for?

[matthew91]

Im gay and came out to my mum a few weeks ago, she didnt really care and doesnt treat me any differently. i told most of my friends dont care, one does but meh

[Dizzybeatle]

I came out to my friends first, it made it easier and was alot better for the support they gave

Then I told my parents 3 weeks ago, and it werent a great reaction. They are not happy, but they have gone back to normal with me for now. That will change once I get my first boyfriend though :/

[Low__x]

Mann, I remember coming out to my friends and family.

The friends wasn't intentional, some little bitch ratted me out.
But, I guess I do kind of owe her in some sick, twisted way.
I was brutally tortured in school, harassed, bitches followed me home, got rape and death threat phone calls, some ass hole even had the nerve to try and pull a gun out on me.

Family:

Mom - "YAY I HAVE A DAUGHTER NOW!"
Dad - Just a phase.
Stepfather - Get out of my house

Now, I'm living with a man who actually had the heart of gold to take me in, and I'm chilling at his house until I'm 17-19, then it's on my own.

Coming out for me was fun, mannn.
Lots of stories, lots of memories,
altogether it was bitchin'
;]

[fjp999]

[COLOR="Purple"]Good luck Dizzy

And WoW, what a great positive attitude Lw.[/COLOR]

[yar]

You are truly the cum-back Kid