How much of your days?

[jade_ari]

I spend about 45% of my time being "gay"...lol! k es eso? What does that even mean? Like what defines "gay"...I am a normal acting human being...only time I think gay I guess, is when I spot a hottie...that about it...lol...so yea about 45%....k raro...

[jade_ari]

OOOOOHHHHHH!!!! Okay I read it wrong...jejeje :tongue:

[joseph]

i m a gay man! i love it

[colinmackay]

i m a gay man! i love it

Me too! Never been happier since I worked that bit out. mile:

[Genersis]

I quite agree with Frank on this(a leopard can't do things in a non leopard way, eh? Or change its spots for that mater.):biggrin:
But if I didn't I'd say:

All the time! unless i'm thinking about computer games/concentrating on something.

So much for "seeming straight".....:tongue:
Perhaps I'm day dreaming about "romance" too much.....:redface:

[princealbertofb]

When I originally posted this question, I thought about it and thought: It's a silly question... but then if I asked the question it was because I'd realised that not everything I do in a day is tinged with gay thought or gay feeling...
I guess it comes from having been a fairly ordinary human being (a sexless one at that)... so I think that I spend some of my day feeling gay feelings, having gay desires or yearnings, and looking up how to live myself as a gay man, and other parts of the day when my sexual orientation doesn't come into play particularly...
I agree with Frank however that we can't change who we are intrinsically.

[ardus]

How much of your days do you spend being GAY, doing gay things, thinking in gay terms, researching gay stuff?
How much of your days do you spend just being a regular being?

I'm still trying to figure out what defines gay things, or thinking in gay terms and what defines regular.
Richard

[peterinmalaga]

Do heteros do things in a hetero way? Do they watch TV through hetero eyes? I think they do. I agree with fjp: if you´re gay, you´re gay all day long, whether you´re consciously thinking about it or not - in fact especially when you´re not consciously thinking about it. Sometimes it just takes you by surprise eg when you see a gorgeous man in the street and nearly drive into a tree!

[marshlander]

Do heteros do things in a hetero way? Do they watch TV through hetero eyes? I think they do. I agree with fjp: if you´re gay, you´re gay all day long, whether you´re consciously thinking about it or not - in fact especially when you´re not consciously thinking about it. Sometimes it just takes you by surprise eg when you see a gorgeous man in the street and nearly drive into a tree!

You too? :redface:

[princealbertofb]

Do heteros do things in a hetero way? Do they watch TV through hetero eyes? I think they do. I agree with fjp: if you´re gay, you´re gay all day long, whether you´re consciously thinking about it or not - in fact especially when you´re not consciously thinking about it. Sometimes it just takes you by surprise eg when you see a gorgeous man in the street and nearly drive into a tree!

Yes but how often do you nearly drive into a tree while you're choosing a ripe melon at the mercado???:biggrin: