04-10-2010, 05:27 PM
I'm going through a really depressive patch at the moment because of family things, exam stress, coursework stress, unknowing of what i am to do after college and the possible loss of a best friend.
My best friend got a GF about 4 months ago and after that he has been ever so clingy with her his world revolves around them and no one else. I understand that this goes on for the first few days that someone goes out but this has lasted like 6 months. He usually lives at his home with his disabled mum, who he has to care for, unemployed dad and very hyperactive twin brother. Usually he would have to care for his mother because she is disabled but since this relationship has been going on he hardly cares about her anymore and sometimes doesn't even go home. He seems to have a split personality though. When hes with his girl hes far up her arse (clingy) and tries to avoid me whenever possible. However when she is not available like she is working he is really friendly just like the time before he went out with this girl and caring for his mother. I'm not very popular, have about 5 friends and 20 acquaintances.
so many times he has walked over me and lied to me. I don't have many friends which is the reason why I'm not really doing much about this.
So guys what should i do? tell him hes a complete dick (have tried this before and he comes up with a load of shit about how I'm ever so pathetic)
Or move on? Don't know what to do
My best friend got a GF about 4 months ago and after that he has been ever so clingy with her his world revolves around them and no one else. I understand that this goes on for the first few days that someone goes out but this has lasted like 6 months. He usually lives at his home with his disabled mum, who he has to care for, unemployed dad and very hyperactive twin brother. Usually he would have to care for his mother because she is disabled but since this relationship has been going on he hardly cares about her anymore and sometimes doesn't even go home. He seems to have a split personality though. When hes with his girl hes far up her arse (clingy) and tries to avoid me whenever possible. However when she is not available like she is working he is really friendly just like the time before he went out with this girl and caring for his mother. I'm not very popular, have about 5 friends and 20 acquaintances.
so many times he has walked over me and lied to me. I don't have many friends which is the reason why I'm not really doing much about this.
So guys what should i do? tell him hes a complete dick (have tried this before and he comes up with a load of shit about how I'm ever so pathetic)
Or move on? Don't know what to do