04-23-2010, 02:22 PM
Hi everyone, hope someone can give me some decent advice on this? I'm 40 and was straight up until about 4 years ago. So obviously since then i've been dating guys madly thinking recently that i'm gay and not remotely bi at all? I've been in one 18 month relationship with a guy and recently an on and off relationship for the past 5 months, not really knowing if it's worth pursuing since i seem to be the one making any effort. However i was in hospital today for day surgery and a very straight talking cute 24 year old nurse hit on me big time and gave me her phone number and wants to see me! I was very surprised and very flattered, and am also extremely interested but am slightly apprehensive due to my gay activity over the last 4 years. All my family and close friends and workmates know about my sexual exploits of late, however this doesn't help the situation. If i see this girl and things progress as i'd like them to, i'm going to have to tell her about myself! I was hoping someone might have some answers as to how i go about this or better still any experience in the matter?