06-09-2010, 12:39 AM
I don't plan on coming out until a certain something happens first so I really need help with a few things, and maybe you guys could help. I'm not really the stereotypical into fashion likes poetry type of gay guy, so it's easy to stay in the closet, but lately I've been having problems. My sister (when her friends aren't over) would talk to me about guys she's dating and would ask me if the guy she's dating is "okay". I would usually respond with "Is he smart? Educated?" But then she shows me a half-naked picture of him in a swimming pool, and wow he looks like a caucasian version of Jacob, but even hotter. So do you guys have any advice on what to say when people asks those types of questions?
(I arranged the questions so it would be easier)
1. What to say when girls ask about guys.(God that is really difficult)
2. What to say when I'm introduced to a really handsome and shirtless guy in the swimming area, and what to do(shake his hand? Smile?)
3. How to react when my friends would fool around(sometimes my friends would just give each other quick lap dances and laugh, but I have a hard time not getting a hard-on when he does that to me)
4. What should I do in the locker room? My friends would talk about stuff, but I just stay quiet minding my own business(but they might suspect something if I continue to do that). Should I look at them the whole time? If I have nothing to talk about? Should I stare at their sweaty defined but not too muscular bodies and drool?
(I arranged the questions so it would be easier)
1. What to say when girls ask about guys.(God that is really difficult)
2. What to say when I'm introduced to a really handsome and shirtless guy in the swimming area, and what to do(shake his hand? Smile?)
3. How to react when my friends would fool around(sometimes my friends would just give each other quick lap dances and laugh, but I have a hard time not getting a hard-on when he does that to me)
4. What should I do in the locker room? My friends would talk about stuff, but I just stay quiet minding my own business(but they might suspect something if I continue to do that). Should I look at them the whole time? If I have nothing to talk about? Should I stare at their sweaty defined but not too muscular bodies and drool?