Parents

[TheProphet]

i havent n most prob won't ever

why's that?

[drocko17]

I don't know if she's talked to anyone but I do believe it's for my own sake.

Well that's very from parents. I told her I was already 17 and i had actually got used to the sort of treatments received from society all along my teenage years (particularly when i was younger, that was easier to suspect sth about my sexuality, but with puberty i dunno why i changed), and that i'd raised that level of coming out of the closet because i was strong enough to ignore those treatments. i dont know if your mum or you thought that way

[TheProphet]

I do but I don't think she does

[drocko17]

Tell her, convince her, at least that was what i did and now she doesn't seem much worried about that

[TheProphet]

well I will try that and see how it goes but it might not be for a while - I'm not much of a talker and I'm not sure how to bring it up in conversation

[drocko17]

It used to happen to me in the beginning, particularly with my dad. But get forward, haven't you ever had a conversation since you first told her? If not try to approach, sometimes it's really hard and i know it; but well as spoty said 'the rest will come to you as a pleasant consequence' and thats really a motivation

[TheProphet]

I didn't actually tell her lol she did a bit of snooping and found out. hence why I am known only as TheProphet on here, so she can't find me

[drocko17]

But what did she tell you?? Didn't you have a conversation at least?

[TheProphet]

well she didn't say much just that she was ok with it but she didn't want other people to know in case it caused problems for me and that was sort of the end of it

[drocko17]

Try, and specially in this situation of your life, to avoid a cold (i mean cold, not bad) relationship with your parents if you are able to have it the other way round. Be brave and talk to your mum if you guess she won't treat you violently and will support your feelings instead. As i said, make the best of the deal, talking to her will make you both feel much better if you right know reckon you NEED it. Let her know your feelings, listen to her worries. Open a constant dialog, that's the best way! How long has it been since she discovered it?